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I've been thinking about writing this for awhile. I guess it's one impression of what blogging seems to me.
 
I view it as a community of people. Each one of us has our own house. We furnish it in our own unique way, it has it's own color, own scent, own mood, own tempo. There are many blocks in our village, and each one has it's own flavor too.
 
And every day, or whenever a particular person comes around, we go visiting each other's houses. We might go to Silverwhisper's house and discuss some current issues. Then we might take a trip to CreativeWoman's house for some coffee and chit chat. Maybe we'll visit DestinyDiva and play a game (or listen to a rant about knobhead :-P), or to GracefullyGrowing's place for a discussion on life issues.
 
Some people like to go over to Runningbear's to talk about hunting and the Native American life. Or head on over to Lfbno7's for some well crafted dry humor. And maybe you'll come to my house, although I'm not really sure why.
 
And when a new person moves into the neighborhood, many that have lived here for awhile turn out at their door to welcome them.
 
As I was thinking about this, I realized that I've moved six times in the last twelve years, and not once has anyone welcomed me to the neighborhood, or invited me over to their house for anything. And I remember being a child in the 60's and 70's, and it was a normal occurance for the people in the neighborhood to come knocking on the new person's door carrying a plate of cookies or a bottle of wine in welcome. Visiting neighbors was a common passtime. But it seems that in our 'modern world', that is a tradition we are losing.
 
So maybe that's what we're all doing here? Many of us don't have that element of community in our lives, and we miss it?
 
We're looking for some neighbors to visit?
 
That's the way I like to think about it anyway.


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  • Lucytorial said on Feb 19, 2008....
    The only reason I come to your house is so that I can go to destiny's house and snicker at the fact I saw you ironing your underwear... and the fact you have nice coffee, the rest of the time well, you know I don't really like you! (*-})
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 19, 2008....
    Oh welcome to the neighbourhood... here I made this shitty chicken soup you might want to give to the cat.

    Mwwwaaa hahahahaaa *Lucy's evil laugh fills travs hallway*

    You being deep andmeaningful hey! cool, the analogy works and well I like visiting peoples houses....I've been known to stalk past mobil's, aliens, D6fers, Destiny's pickers, moonrivers, jessi's, minniemouse (cause mickey's got a big mickey) and everyone really.

    Wanna come over for a coffee later? or a scotch?
  • travelr712 said on Feb 19, 2008....
    yeah lucy, and if i cared, i'd be upset, specially since you drink all my coffee! ;-P
  • travelr712 said on Feb 19, 2008....
    we were commenting at the same time lucy, so insert my last comment between yours, and put this one after, and before your next one, which will cause a time warp that creates a black whole which will ingest the entire universe. yeah, let's go have a drink, while we still can.
  • Zayda said on Feb 19, 2008....
    Brings Trave some coffee beans and a grinder as a house-warming...err...blog-warming present. :)
  • travelr712 said on Feb 19, 2008....
    thanks zayda. grab a chair. so is kruuiya still in your head? :-)
  • CreativeWoman said on Feb 19, 2008....
    Nice post :-)

    CW
  • Twylarants said on Feb 19, 2008....
    Hi Trav, this was beautifully written.  I felt this way about this place from the moment I moved in.  I even wrote 2 posts similar to yours.
    But I don't feel this way any longer...at least, not currently.
    Maybe it's just a natural progression...new people, different needs.
    Maybe I'm just getting old...who knows?
    Soulcast has changed for me...I don't have that feeling of neighborhood anymore.
    Maybe it's time to put up the for sale sign and move on.
  • Zayda said on Feb 19, 2008....
    Trav--Well, since I am grading some projects for the class in which the student with the last name that starts with Kruu is enrolled, yeah, she's still in my head. It's a funny little reminder of this place. :)
  • polarheart said on Feb 20, 2008....
    Hi Trav, I really like your rendition(sp?) of what blogging is and I agree. 
     
    Hey, I brought you a lovely fern to decorate your blog house with :-) I hope you like it!
     
     
  • travelr712 said on Feb 20, 2008....
    cw - thank you :-)
     
    twirley - i know what you mean. i also know sc goes in cycles. stick around, things will change again, and you might miss something great :-)
     
    zayda - yeah, i read that in your post. never far from sc, are we? :-)
     
    polar - wow, a housewarming gift! thank you :-)
  • beltrix said on Feb 20, 2008....

    this is a nice blog, and i feel like i can relate.

    i recently moved into a hall at university, although we were all in the same boat and didnt know anyone, it took us time to pluck up the courage and knock on each others doors for some introduction and polite convosation. now we all leave our doors open so we can just come and go as we please and talk to whoever we want to, thus making us all real firm friends. i feel like this on soulcast now too

    x

  • silverwhisper said on Feb 20, 2008....
    well said, trav.

    [brings in a rubber tree as a blogwarming present]

    :>

    ed
  • Me-Myself&I said on Feb 20, 2008....
    that's exactly how i feel. Ditto!
     
  • uniquely-ironic said on Feb 20, 2008....
    There is a lot of community here that people miss in RL.  I grew up in a small community where you knew dozens of people, so this is my replacement.  I feel very like life in the bay area prohibits that same feeling.
  • mobil said on Feb 20, 2008....
    I remember going to welcome new neighbors with my Dad, it was a common thing growing up Travelr. It's uncommon as hell today, we're moving too fast I'd say. Thanks for the reminder of traditions gone by.
  • travelr712 said on Feb 20, 2008....
    beltrix - yeah, i remember that from my young college dorm days. haven't had that experience since.
     
    silver - thanks for the rubber tree. how long before i can start picking the tires?
     
    me - i think allot of people feel that way. it's a down side of the internet, imo.
     
    unique - yeah, we were discussing that in mobil's post, how urban sprawl has caused personal isolation, mostly due to personal security imo
     
    mobil - you're welcome. i was kinda shocked when i moved into my first home in the 80's and nobody came over to welcome me. i thought for years it was just me, but now i've found it's a paradeigm change.
  • pickersplock said on Feb 20, 2008....
    Well, don't look at me!
    My kids have been on vacation all week so I'm up to my eyeballs in testosterone!  Ugh!
    Save me someone!
  • Mamie said on Feb 20, 2008....
    I do feel like this is a neighborhood and that I am visiting neighbors when we write. I do have a new neighbor and I broght them an apple pie (what's more American?) and introduced myself. It felt like the right thing to do. I have moved often and no one has ever stopped by...people should start doing things like that again. Mamie...here is a pot of mums that you can replant soon. enjoy!
  • evil_twin said on Feb 20, 2008....
    For the most part, that's how I feel about this place too. But sometimes I like to lock myself inside my house and not open the door for awhile. But eventually I decide to poke my head out and see what everyone else is doing. Like now. It's been awhile since I've walked around to visit people, but I'm still in the neighborhood. Watching out my window.

    As for people greeting the new neighbors in real life, we had that experience when we moved in. We didn't get a huge party thrown for us, but people came out and wanted to meet us. Our neighbor next door makes us goodies all the time and brings them over. I guess we're lucky!

    -evil_twin LA
  • travelr712 said on Feb 20, 2008....
    [not looking at pickers] btw, what's so bad about testosterone? :-)
     
    mamie - yeah, i agree, i wish people would do more of it too, but then again, i don't do it either. and thanks for the mum, ma'am :-)
     
    yeah et, i do that too, just our natures i guess. and i wouldn't complain, you got to see your neighbor's boobs! that's better than a rubber plant any day! ;-P
  • GracefullyGrowing said on Feb 20, 2008....
    Did he just ask what's so bad about testosterone?
     
    ~Grace~
    (who's searching for the duct tape to put over her mouth and fingers ;~)
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 20, 2008....
    well grace I for one will stand by your side and say again

    DID he actually ask that????? grace??? grace??? quick! hold me back I'm going to kick him up the butt!
  • travelr712 said on Feb 20, 2008....
    i rather enjoy my testosterone, thank you very much grace. :-P
     
    well lucy, at least you'd kick me in the butt, not in more important areas... ;-P
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 20, 2008....
    you may enjoy it trav but is has a distinct smell or odour about it......
  • GracefullyGrowing said on Feb 20, 2008....
    Trav . . . where is the duct tape?  I can't find it in the kitchen drawer.  And I'm about to . . . .answer the question.  HURRY!!  Electrical tape will do.
     
    ~Grace~
    (who is constantly surrounded by males, and knows the answer!)
  • GracefullyGrowing said on Feb 20, 2008....
    Lucy - Thank you!  I need some female back up around here! =)
     
    ~Grace~
  • travelr712 said on Feb 20, 2008....
    [sniff sniff] nope, don't smell a thing lucy!
     
    no tape, but i got some super glue grace :-P
  • GracefullyGrowing said on Feb 20, 2008....
    Nope.  Too permanent.  You'd like that too much.  ;~D
     
    ~Grace~
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 20, 2008....
    back later guys.. not much fun to be around at the moment.
  • allswell said on Feb 21, 2008....

    ooohhh i like that trav...that's a really sweet way to think of it! 

    {{hugs}} alls:)

  • travelr712 said on Feb 21, 2008....
    thanks alls :-)

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