I'm going to use. I'm going to use whenever I want. If you don't like, then you can bite my ass. I'm tired to death of tempering my thoughts for other people. Fuck it.
I personally don't use the F word very much when I speak. I use it, just not much. I feel like it loses its power if it's overused. But more importantly, it offends other people and my monkeys might overhear it.
But this blog (and writing in general) is about thoughts and feelings. I think with the F word. I feel with the F word. So I'm going to fucking write with the F word.
You got a fucking problem with that?
happykat posted on Aug 06, 2006
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pinkjellybeans said on Aug 06, 2006....
This is the great thing about a blog or a diary... What you write is up to YOU and your personal thoughts and feelings shouldn't be an annoyance to others. If they are, then they should visit other bloggers. Traditionally, diaries are for you and you alone - so you should use whatever language whenever you want to! Visit me sometime - and my ads! :) Pink Jelly Beans -
Zayda said on Aug 06, 2006....
[cheers] Personally, I think and feel with the F word too, but I temper saying it aloud especially around my little bug. It doesn't offend me; it doesn't bother me. So, I think, if it is part of your natural expression, thought process while writing use it. -
ALIENated said on Aug 06, 2006....
Long ago, when I first arrived here (has it been two weeks already), I campaigned (in one post) for everyone to stop using the F word, to clean it up a bit so all familiy members could get on SoulCast and read my posts, which I have decided not to air here. I was soundly voted down. So go for it man, go for it. Wear it out. The F word is one of the most versatile words in our language. You can plug it in anywhere. However, as one of my philosophy professors explained, overuse of any word can eventually reduce it to just another word. Some day you will be telling your sainted mother to hand you the F***ing mash potatoes. Some probably do already. The really bad part is your sainted mother with tell you to F*** off. -
Zayda said on Aug 06, 2006....
One of the funniest and oddest experiences I ever had was my first semester of grad school. I chose, for some reason, to live on campus in graduate housing instead of getting an apartment. Directly across the hall from me, lived a two guys--one from Hungary and one from Romania. They both loved to pick my brain about idiomatic expressions in English and of course to ask me questions about the English language in general. One day, Jorst--the guy from Hungary--wanted to borrow my dictionary. He borrowed it, flipped to the F's and began reading the definition of fuck and several expressions that include the word fuck--fuck over, fuck off, fucked up--aloud. There was just something about him reading all of it aloud that was hysterical. It's of course, one of those, you had to be there things. -
silverwhisper said on Aug 06, 2006....
just fucking use it. :> ed -
GrapeKoolaid said on Aug 06, 2006....
Fuck Yeah! -
JadeLondon said on Aug 06, 2006....
I try to not curse too much--but sometimes it really nails what I am feeling. -
Ajinia said on Aug 06, 2006....
Funny, there are no google adsense ads here. Wonder why? LOL I seem to be obssessed with the ads the last couple of days, oh well. Anyway, I think that Alien is right, when any word is used too much, it begins to lose effectiveness. So if you just write it to shock and use it a lot, then it isn't effective. If, however, you use it sparingly then it can come as a shock or as an indication of how powerfully you actually feel about what you are writing about. I use it all too frequently myself, and often find myself trying to cut down on my swearing even though my daughter is 15 and probably uses worse language when I'm not around. :) -
Expendable said on Aug 06, 2006....
It just doesn't have the power it used to have. Where it once started riots where college kids hurling it at soldiers would get shot, now it's so tired and overused that people are actually making fun of it. -
hunter_boyce_chandler said on Aug 06, 2006....
When my little brother was born we lived in Germany. I remember when he went through potty training we never knew when he was going to ask to go to the bathroom but we always knew it would probably be too late. My mother started bringing along an empty coffee can with a lid on it, when we went onto the Airbase to shop for American groceries. All the way there my little brother sat quietly listening to my big sister (evil incarnate) cuss under her breath at me and my twin. Mom put him in the shopping cart (they didn’t have built in seats in those days). He immediately pointed to one of the isles and screamed “Look at ALL the Pee Cans”. When we finally stopped laughing and the entire commissary was giggling and looking at him, he suddenly realized that he had the attention of 20 plus grown adults. Then he said “What about all this Funk business" The word just doesn’t have the right connotation for me. I tend to laugh when I hear it. -
Elly said on Aug 06, 2006....
to use the word. You can happily use it here. I am one that refused to use the word, and seldom find it of value in conversation or written word. I mean, what does it mean? To mind mind it is a word to describe a violent act of sex - so I can't see how it fits well into general conversation. Many of the young people I hear in trains, the street etc use it in a way that suggests that their vocabulary is very limited. In that they use f*** liberally in every sentence as it if makes them feel clever. Duh! When I child uses the word - from hearing adults talk, I feel sick. -
Pinkdiva said on Aug 06, 2006....
Whatever, fucking use the word. -
quidnunc said on Aug 06, 2006....
just go ahead and use it... to me, the F word is so versatile. It can be used as a verb both transitive (John f**ked Mary) and intransitive (Mary was f**ked by John). It can be an action verb (John really gives a f**k), a passive verb (Mary really doesn't give a f**k), and adverb (Mary is f**king interested in John), or as a noun (Mary is a terrific f**k). It can also be used as an interjection (F**k! I'm late for my date with Mary). It can even be used as a conjunction (Mary is easy, f**k she's also stupid). As you can see, there aren't very many words with the overall versatility of the word f**k. Aside from its sexual connotations, this word can be used to describe many situations: 1. Greetings .......... "How the f**k are ya?" 2. Fraud ............….."I got f**ked by the car dealer." 3. Resignation ........"Oh, f**k it!" 4. Trouble ..........… "I guess I'm f**ked now." 5. Aggression ......... "F**K YOU!" 6. Disgust ..........…. "F**k me." 7. Confusion ........…"What the f**k...??" 8. Displeasure ........ "F**king shit man..." 9. Lost .............……"Where the f**k are we?" 10.Disbelief ........… "UNF**KINGBELIEVABLE!!" 11.Retaliation ......…"Up your f**king ass!" 12.Apathy ..........…. "Who really gives a f**k?" 13.Suspicion ........…"Who the f**k are you?" 14.Directions .......…"F**k off." It can be maternal.... "MOTHERF**KER!!" It can be used to tell time ....... "It's four f**kingtwenty!" It can be used as an anatomical description ....... "He's a f**kingasshole." Lastly, many notable people throughout history have used it: "What the f**k was that?" Mayor of Hiroshima "That's not a real f**king gun." John Lennon "Where the f**k is all this water coming from?" Captain of the Titanic "Who the f**k is gonna find out?" Richard Nixon "Heads are gonna f**king roll." Anne Boleyn "Any f**king idiot could answer that." Albert Einstein "It does so f**king look like her!" Picasso "You want what on the f**king ceiling?" Michelangelo "F**k a duck." Walt Disney "Houston we have a big f**king problem." The crew of Apollo 13 -
happykat said on Aug 06, 2006....
Thank you to those who seem to be supportive that I write what I feel and think, including the F word. Ajinia, I don't have an Adsense account. My taxes are already too complicated. Its a long story. Anyhoo, money ain't what drives me. Expendable, I hear you. There are those that use "fuck" or "fucking" as their "um." You know, that word to help you think? It definetly has no umph when used like that. -
Ajinia said on Aug 06, 2006....
Ah, well that explains it then. :) Thanks Kat. -
happykat said on Aug 06, 2006....
quid, thanks for the thorough illustrations. It's one of those [i]feel[/i] words....directly tied to emotion. Thanks to HunBoyChan for that story. Anything involving portable pee storage warms my heart. -
happykat said on Aug 06, 2006....
Oh my sweet mashed taters! I would fucking die of laughter and shock if my mother or my granny used the F word, ALIEN. -
ecofriendly said on Aug 06, 2006....
There's no problem with the F word at all. It comes in real handy when I'm ready to blow a gasket, although I restrain myself to an extraordinary degree sometimes with fuckwits. Go for it. Our society is pretty much rooted anyway with it's blase disintegration of the English language. People know when I am really angry when it lets fly because I rarely use it...Hey from the F word, if it's used regularly, what are you going to call upon in reserve for true effectiveness if you don't have the mentality to be creative with the English language? Movie scripts are full of the F word and those movies that use it every second sentence are pretty much formula stuff lacking polish and intelligence. -
pinkblush said on Aug 06, 2006....
I use it whenever I want to and no one can stop me. Even use it when I tell jokes.. but when im angry... I rarely say it, but if im gonna use it then I really mean it. I once argued with my bf .. and I was so angry I felt like exploding I told him "Fuck Off!!!' soo he went away. Hehe -
samcam58 said on Aug 06, 2006....
Fucking A, this is fucking great, I don't fucking believe it! If this aint the very fucking thing I was fucking thinking about just this fucking morning! Motherfuckers hit the motherfucking point right on the fucking head. Fucking fantastic, fuck if it isn't the greatest fucking word that was ever fucking thought of or fucking spoken. Right fucking on! And you know what fucking else, fucking is a pretty fan-fucking-tastic thing to do with another fucking person. Far fucking out. Fucking see ya fucking later. -
bipolarbear said on Aug 06, 2006....
lol , sam , sounds like all of my kids did when they turned 13 and 14 and were with their friends! fuck became the "word of the day" every day for about 2 years! I've always used the word but i had some rules about it. Not in front of me until you are 18, by then i figured they'd wear the hell out of it . and use it only for lack of a better word. i didn't use it in my conversations with them either until they were 18. know when and where NOT to use it. and then never direct it AT me. aside from that feel fucking free! -
mrhowto said on Aug 07, 2006....
Absolutel no fuckin' problem hun. Just one thing though, can I bite you're ass anyway? :P -
madstorm said on Aug 07, 2006....
I read somewhere that the word 'Fuck' originated in policemens notebooks back in the 19th Century. When they arrested a prostitute they wrote F.U.C.K which meant "For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge". So called 'swear words' only have power because we are not meant to use them. The word 'Politician' began as a swear word... which is not all together a bad thing. The word 'Bollocks' originated in church of all places, it was used to describe a boring sermon "he's talking bollocks". Say what you want is my philosophy... fuck it. Who gives a shit? Your fucking long-haired bastard friend, Madstorm -
silverwhisper said on Aug 07, 2006....
madstorm: the acronym thing is unfortunately ||{1}||. :> ed -
madstorm said on Aug 07, 2006....
Thank you silverwhisper... Internet access right here on my lap and I never bothered to look up the origins of the word 'fuck' ... I suppose that's because I don't give a fuck. A teacher told me when I was about 9 years old "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me". Funnily enough I've never been hurt by words... punches on the other hand, well... they cause bruises but even they heal pretty quick as I'm finding now... All the best with the swearing everyone!! -
silverwhisper said on Aug 07, 2006....
well, it's a good story. people like a good story, which is why this particular misconception keeps floating around. it's part of what i like to refer to as pub lore: stuff you hear from guys at a bar and everyone nods sagely and never really questions it. :> ed -
Marie-Jane said on Aug 07, 2006....
Musique artists seem to feel the same way you do!! "that's 46 fucks in this fucked up rhyme (limp bizkit)". Me, english being my second language I really don't mind, since french people seem to swear 10000000000000X more than english people, in french there are many way to decribe one thing, so in other words there are MANY ways to swear in french...way more than in english!!! Fuck is a VERY common in french canadians, I actually had trouble adapting to it when I moved to Montreal (comming from an english town). So I say FUCK IT, just say it man...just be careful around kids, I don't like when people swear around my kids! -
Marie-Jane said on Aug 07, 2006....
fuckin A samcam58!!! -
FaithfulDisciple said on Aug 08, 2006....
ALIENated: That sure was f**kingly funny. quidnunc: Now why the f**k didn't I think of that? So to anyone thinking of abusing the F word, quit f**cking around. Serial abuse of the word will just end us being f**cked up. So f**ck off! :) -
iciabruxelles said on Aug 08, 2006....
MJ, is there any french swearing word that used as much as fuck (as those described eloquently by quidnunc ;p) -
Marie-Jane said on Aug 08, 2006....
Tabarnack! EStie! Calisse! The funny thing is that all french canadian swears have religious roots! -
Marie-Jane said on Aug 08, 2006....
a french canadian would say: je suis aller au callise de depanneur et tabarnak l'estie d'fou etait la!!! (there is no way to translate this!!! I guess it would ressemble I went to the fucking corner store and godammit the fucking crazy guy was there!) for fuck: La machine é trop fucké! The machine is fucked. SEe whe I mean, french is way more harsh I find when it comes to swearing! But in France it would be another case! hihi they do swear but it seems funny to me with their cute accent, but do swear allot less then french canadians (I assume?) I have some french (France) friends who don't swear at all. -
iciabruxelles said on Aug 08, 2006....
Very interesting!! Thanks. I've never heard those words (tabarnack, estie, calisse). I think you are right, French people is not putting as much swearing words as English speakers do with the word fuck. They swear only to really swear. Like putain de merde, salaud!, and something like that. They even now use "fuck" more often as an interjection, transformed it to an adjective (like your example above, and sometimes pronounce it as the way it writes...so funny (i did it also anyway ;p) Still in a matter of swearing word, younger generation (at least my friends), sometimes use "enculee" (sorry, my computer doesn't have necessary accents for french letters), that means "asshole", or a shortened word to say "shove it to your ass", to say "hyper cool"...heheh...can you imagine when the elderly heard them... -
barbiedollreject said on Aug 09, 2006....
F also stands for fanny pack, which were so fashionable. -
jOyLuck said on Aug 11, 2006....
That's one thing you could never avoid when you get so sick and tired of people around you...i also felt that way several of times...That's just normal...And you know what???!!, i've got same situation as you do... -
yeahbutnobut said on Aug 12, 2006....
Alienated, if you wanna hear a mother use the f word, you should check out my mom, she says it more in a day that I have in all my lifetime, and I ain't that young no mo. Here is a typical sample of me mom in a normal moment at home, "You know what, I feel like a fucking cup of coffee. Oh shit, did you see what I did? I put my fucking ciggarette down right after I lit it then I got distracted by somefucking arsehole from the office calling me because he can't find his ass from a hole in the ground. I don't know how that dumb fucker lived so long. Now my cigarette burned all the way down and it was the last fucker in my pack. . . I guess I'm gonna have to put on something and drive up the road to get a carton. Fucking thingsare so expensive. (The cup of coffee is read, so she moved to the sofa with it). There's never anything good on the fucking tv this time of day. Where is my fucking remote? You get the idea. She calls me up from time to time and admits she can't figure out why I only visit about once per five years on average. Meanwhile, I'm wondering if I can get away with once per 12 years or so. -
FaithfulDisciple said on Aug 13, 2006....
yeahbutnobut: That sure was f**ckingly funny. I had a blast laughing at it. No offense meant, but I'd be ashamed to hang around with my mom in public places if she had that foul language in her blabbing mouth all the time. -
FaithfulDisciple said on Aug 13, 2006....
happykat: I noticed something strange with your site. There are no Adsense ads in this blog site. If the topic is offensive such as the F word, all the ads are gone. What do you think of that?
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