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i always believed that a rich man is not the one who has the most, but the one who needs the least.

since i was a little kid, i have always felt that i was rich, that my family was rich.

but, moneywise, we actually weren't.

my father worked in a bank, while my mother worked as a government employee. together, they worked hard and earned enough to raise me and my two siblings. they struggled to make the family live comfortably. and kudos to them, i think they succeeded, for there was never a time when one of us had to sacrifice school simply because we had no tuition money. in fact, we actually had extra money to go on vacation during summer.

but we lived a simple life.

my father did not own any luxury car, but it was his rickety car that brought us to school and back home every day. each ride to and from school was always comfortable, eventful, and enjoyable. during each trip, the car was filled with laughter, as well as assorted stories of the events of the day.

we did not live in a mansion, but our bungalow was always filled with laughter and provided us shelter. it was a home, a peaceful sanctuary -- always clean, its garden always green, and always eager to welcome us all.

we did not have the best gourmet food available, but our meals were always a gustatory event with my mother's excellent cooking.

my siblings and i did not always have brand new, designer, and expensive clothes, but we were always neat and decently attired.

we did not have the best and most advanced toys, but playtime for us was most enjoyable as any child could ever desire.

yes, we always had enough for our needs.

i was rich, and i still am.


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  • Zayda said on Feb 12, 2008....
    my friends and my family make me rich in ways that money never could.


    and quidnunc, it's great to see you back here and posting. how have you been?
  • quidnunc said on Feb 12, 2008....
    hi zayda! thanks for dropping by. it's great to be back!

    things have been really hectic for me. but i am great. thank you for asking.

    i hope things are also well with you and the family.
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Zayda said it very well. :) It's the people, not the stuff, that makes a life rich. :) My little family might be scraping by right now, but we have everything that matters.
     
    ~Infernal
  • quidnunc said on Feb 12, 2008....
    very well said, too, Infernal.

    as long as one tempers his needs, and as long as those simple needs are addressed, then such man is the richest one alive!
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Funny that Quid, I had to learn the hard way lifes treasures and richness wasn't about certain things... like money or possessions and it took near death of a loved one to do it.

    Since then I've had very little yet feel like I have the richest and most rewarding life in the world... because I have love, fun, laughter, sincerity, loyalty, integrity, warmth, and respect in my life now, I ever had a lot of that growing up.
  • quidnunc said on Feb 12, 2008....
    good on you, lucy. i am happy that you are now enjoying the company of your loved one, knowing fully well that the gift of life is priceless, and the real treasure.

    indeed, the richness of our life invariably depends on things that money can't buy.
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 12, 2008....
    isn't that the truth! now I am going to head off and enjoy making it richer (been online too long) 
  • quidnunc said on Feb 12, 2008....
    go, go, lucy. make yourself richer!!!
  • wombat said on Feb 13, 2008....
    Very nicely put.  You remind me to be grateful for what I do have, rather than whining over what I don't.  Nice post.
  • bluegum said on Feb 13, 2008....
    i am rich in things that matter to me.
  • Carefully said on Feb 13, 2008....
    Indeed you are!
  • crybabylu said on Feb 13, 2008....
    With Jesus in our hearts, and a family who is bonded together in God's love, we are very wealthy, but not in worldly goods.
  • quidnunc said on Feb 13, 2008....
    thank you wombat. whining and complaining does not get us anywhere and if we really look around us, we'll surely realize that we have more than enough for our needs.

    yes, bluegum, having all the things that matter most to us is our real richness.  we need not crave for more because, at the end of the day, we only need a couple of things to make our lives meaningful.

    indeed i am, rich carefully. modesty aside, my economic condition has changed immensely. i have been blessed over the years through hardwork and dedicated service to my clients. but even if we have or are capable of having all the material things we desire, we still must practice the ennobling virtue of poverty.

    crybabylu, you hit it right in the head. very well said.

  • silverwhisper said on Feb 17, 2008....
    quid, as super z said, it's great to see you blogging again! :>

    i am a millionaire, because i measure my riches by my friends and family. i have seen what money can do, and i'm not really all that impressed. :>

    ed

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