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Have you got something to say to me? Go ahead and say it now

polarheart posted on Feb 11, 2008 | views: 1028 | Tags: polarheart, friend, my dear friend, fun-sucker
Guys, how about some truth and reality.  I think there are people who might want to say something to me. . .perhaps something that you would not say to me directly, but I am inviting you to say it now.
 
Perhaps you would like to leave a comment here even anon ones are acceptable.  Dont feel the need to pussyfoot. . .say exactly what your criticism is, but please back it up and dont speak in general terms.  I will delete comments that are just a barage of abuse.  By it you have a constructive critism I'm happy to hear what you have to say.
 
If you think I lack humour; am I too sensitive; am I hypocritical?. . .say it now. 
 
The floor is yours.


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  • uniquely-ironic said on Feb 11, 2008....
    You're a good soul.  I can't imagine anyone speaking ill of you.
  • polarheart said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Thanks U-I, you are very kind, but somehow I get the feeling that there are those who have a need to direct me somehow.  I'll have to wait and see if they show up! LOL
     
    I've been thinking about you lots these days as we get closer to the end of Feb. . .you must be getting more and more excited!! :-)
  • MissMimi said on Feb 11, 2008....

    well, polarcakes, you know how I feel about you.  Did you get my e-mail?

  • polarheart said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Mimikins!!! Yes, my love, I did get your email. . .in fact I have just replied ;-)  ((((BIG HUGS))))
  • pickersplock said on Feb 11, 2008....
    I have nothing to say.
    Except that you're one of my great friends here.
    Did I miss something?
  • polarheart said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Aww, Pickers, thank you friend!  You did not miss a thing - YOU miss something??? NEVER!!!! LOL
  • dailyachesandpains said on Feb 11, 2008....
    I'm with Pickers on this one. 
    Love ya Polarkins!
    Daily
  • polarheart said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Dailykins!!! Thank you sugar. . .I cant tell you how nice it is for me to see you here more often and to hear about all your victories. . .it does my heart the world of good!! (((hugs)))
  • quietone said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Oh, my dear polar, I think you are a very sensitive person, and I also think there is nothing wrong in being like that.....it shows you have a huge heart filled with love!  {{{hugs}}} I mean sensitive in a good way here.  :)
  • polarheart said on Feb 11, 2008....
    ((((Quietone)))) Thank you, friend, I hope you know how much you have crept into my heart! :-)
  • Zayda said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Polar: Although we don't share the same world/religious views, I think you are one of the sweetest, nicest people I know.


    I know, I know. That's probably not what you were looking for but tough noogies! :P
  • skald said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Polar you don't lack humor, you are not hypocritical. I am sure you are sensitive but so are most of us. You are sincere and I don't have anything bad to say about you. lol


    ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
  • polarheart said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Zayda, that is most kind of you to say; and I sincerely appreciate your input :-)  (PS: are noogies supposed to be tough? LOL)
     
    Skaldikins, thank you my dear friend. . .I have never doubted your friendship for one second.  And thank you for always being there for me! (((hugs))) to you too!
  • truthsayer said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Polarheart, my dear friend...whatever is this about???  Just send them my way!  Send 'em my way!  Ok...that was a lousey James Cagney impression, I know.  But what's up? 
     
    You have my full friendship and my full attention.
     
    Truthsayer 
  • Twylarants said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Polar, Polarity, Polaroid....
    who would dare say anything bad about a woman who flies around in tights and a cape?
  • destinydiva said on Feb 11, 2008....
    polar~ I dont have a single bad word to say to you!!  your way too sweet!! I think your just lovely!! :-) xx

  • wombat said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Scratching my head here, but wanted to say I have always enjoyed your posts and talking with you here and there.  No problems here with me, except confusion lately.  ( and a need to take a short break as I do from time to time)  Nice people like you and many others bring me back.
  • Kinross said on Feb 11, 2008....
    polarheart i have no problems with you i hope you feel likewise
  • Zayda said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Hmmmm...yes, yes, noogies are supposed to be tough.
  • fearing said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Hi Polar sweety!  Guess what - I'm humorless too.  ;-)  Funny thing is - I think you're hilarious!  I think I am too so my opinion may be a bit skewed.  Hugs to you. 

    If they say it about you, they say it about me.  Same opinion.


  • polarheart said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Truth, nothing is up dear friend, I just want people to be open and honest with me; I'd like to think that I can take criticism on the chin so to say :-))  Thanks friend for being here for me!
     
    Twyla, you make me laugh so hard - perhaps its the tights on my celulite thighs that is getting me into trouble!! LOL
     
    Destiny, thank you for your kind words! ((((hugs))))
     
    Wombie, awww now I feel bad for causing confusion, but it was not my intention. Promise.  So nice to see you here!!
     
    Kinross, thank you for that comment.  I certainly have no qualm with you either!! :-)
     
    Zayda, ok dear if you say so!! (PS: I have no idea what noogies are! LOL)
     
    Fearingbabes, oh I do like being a pea in a pod with you!! And YOU, dear fearing, are most certainly a blast and a half!! LOL
  • wombat said on Feb 11, 2008....
    polarheart:  I'm sorry myself.  I didn't mean "you" or anyone specifically.  Just talking about myself being confused in general, mostly.  You know?  Although, I did mean that I didn't know why you felt this way--for lots of reasons--one of which is I get depressed along with the moods on SC so I don't read what's going on for a day or two.  I hope you are ok, whatever the reason.  And I'm not being nosy anymore and asking.....ha....
  • polarheart said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Wombie, lets not feel bad anymore - DEAL?! (((hugs)))
  • rupert7 said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Polar - I won't hear a single word against you,and I am pleased to see that nobody who has commented so far has one! You were the very first one to welcome me here and help me out.I will never forget that! Your enemy is my enemy !! ((((hugs))))
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Feb 11, 2008....
    That Polar is one of the nicest people around!

    There. I said it. :-D

    ((hugs))

    ~Infernal
  • wombat said on Feb 11, 2008....
    polarheart:  Deal!  At least I am working on picking up my mood tonight.  Am tired of the dumps...thanks and you have a good one!
     
    (((hugs back)))
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 11, 2008....
    I'm still scratching me head over that one... um  polar?? what in heck is going on??? I haven't seen anything nasty here about you or even remotely like a put down...

    I'm losing my mind I swear!

    *hugs*
  • CreativeWoman said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Anybody who calls me SkinnyW is a sweet friend.  That always makes me smile no matter how down I am.  How could I possibly find criticism in that?  Stay the wonderful person you are.  :-)

    I don't know what's happened, but I hope it passes soon.

    CW
  • RollingC said on Feb 11, 2008....
    I have no idea what may have provoked this but I can't think of anyone saying anything derogatory about you Polar.....  You are a good person and there's nothing bad anyone can say about you.   :^)
    Rc
  • satyr said on Feb 11, 2008....
    polar, I have seen nothing in your comments or posts that would lead me to have anything derogatory to think or say about you. 
  • MissMimi said on Feb 11, 2008....
    i just stopped by to give Zeecakes and polarbunny noogies.  :p
  • Zayda said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Oww..oww...hey...enough with the noogies already!!!!


    [zerberts Miss Mimi]
  • husbandhater said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Nothing to say but Hello,Miss u and How is the family?
  • merlin said on Feb 11, 2008....
    Polar! I think youre a sweetheart
  • Carlar95 said on Feb 12, 2008....

    Hi Polar! I have a small inkling what this could be about, but I may be mistaken! I am still just learning the ropes here. I am such a slow learner, I think. You are one of the sweetest people in the world. You have poise and are forthright and I admire you a great deal. Many hugs from from me.

    Carla

  • sweet_cookie01 said on Feb 12, 2008....
    polarbear... did i miss something?!... i like you very much and i have nothing to complain about you dear!
  • boogiebear22 said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Polar, I don't know you well, but what I have read from you, you are someone I would really enjoy getting to know. I can't imagine someone having something ill to say about you. For those that think ill of you...they are probably just insecure in their own skin. Don't change a think, darling.

    Much love,

    L
  • polarheart said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Rupe, thank you for always encouraging me :-)  I am SO GLAD you decided to stay in the end. . .I really feel like there wasn't a time when you weren't part of my SC family [hug]
     
    Infernal, I like you stax too and think you are great!!  I just feel bad that I dont get to your blog often enough :/  Thank you for your sweet comment!
     
    Wombie, good for you!  Sometimes we just need to make a decision not to feel low anymore.  I was very low last week, but I'm not going to be anymore!!
     
    JuicyLucy, you are NOT losing your mind! You lost it a long time ago! LOL (Joking!)  As I said before, I just want people to be forthright with me :-)  Thanks for your comment!
     
    SkinnyW :-) I'm ok hun, promise with my hand on my heart, thank you for caring (hugs).  Guess what?  I have start doing Weight Watchers again and I can already see a difference in my face because of all the water drinking - the dark circles under my eyes have become MUCH lighter (now I just need to get lighter too! LOL)
     
    RollingC, thank you friend and its especially nice to see you here. . .I feel that I would like to see more of you!  (hugs)
     
    Satyr, thank you very much!  I am very honoured that you have commented to my blog since I dont see you much anymore.  I realltransparenty appreciate your kindness :-)
     
    (pssst, Mimikins and Zayda! I STILL dont know what noogies are!!)
     
    HH, we are well thanks!  Back from vacation now - you can go and check the photos on my latest blog if you want!  I trust you are well too, hunny!
     
    Merlin, thank you!  And I think you are a darling :-)
     
    Carla!! Hello!  Thanks for that really special comment.  Your words touched me deeply and I'm so glad we've met! (((hugs)))  You, Lady, are a gem!
     
    Sweets, thank you, friend!  So nice to see you here more often, I really did miss you!
     
    Boogie, I so appreciate your comment, it is very sweet of you.  Honestly I dont mind criticism, as long as it is constructive and direct. :-))
  • silverwhisper said on Feb 12, 2008....
    polar, i don't know what this is about, and i won't pretend that i do. but what i think of you is that you're an absolute sweetheart. :>

    ed
  • polarheart said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Edikins!  Thanks friend, I appreciate your kindness to me :-) Honestly!!
  • moonriver said on Feb 12, 2008....
    polarheart -- i've been meaning to tell you this for a long time now, but i didn't know how to go about it...

    this is a bit awkward...

    it's about your username... how should i say it...

    the name "polarheart" conjures in my mind the unnerving image of... of a... huge huge heart hiding somewhere in the arctic. so now i ask you directly, my friend. i suspect you have a huge huge and warm heart hidden there somewhere in the northern arctic wastes.

    is my suspicion well-founded or not?

    pls confirm or deny.


    :-)

  • polarheart said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Moony :-)  Well, I did have a heart once and it left me :( but, its not HIDDEN, its just that I can find it!  It did send me a postcard from the Arctic once, so I guess that's where it has decided to spend the rest of its days - - - with the polarbears! LOL
  • MissMimi said on Feb 12, 2008....

    LOL  Edikins...  Heehee...

    polarcakes this just goes to show you can find anything on YouTube.


  • polarheart said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Mimikins LOL!  I liked that so much :-)  Now I know what noogies are - its like affection, but it hurts a little :-) 
     
    You're up early, or did you not go to sleep yet?
     
    (((hugs)))) Polar
  • MissMimi said on Feb 12, 2008....

    I've been up for a while.  Had to take my husband to the airport.  But I'm rapidly running out of steam, and my pillow and blankie are calling me.  :)  Nighty night.

  • polarheart said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Nigh Night, Sweet Mimi!
  • FutureGoddess said on Feb 12, 2008....

    Not that I know what's caused this, Polar - but you have been nothing but kind to me.  So thanks. 

     

  • polarheart said on Feb 12, 2008....
    FG, thanks for popping in.  I feel the same about you ;-)
  • JoyousLoving said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Polar ~ I have never seen anything but kindness from you.  I can't believe anyone would want to say anything different.  Obviously you have many friends here that feel the same way I do.  You are very blessed :-)
    Joy
  • hottips4u said on Feb 12, 2008....
    Nice pic's... thanx for sharing.  You seemed so much older to me than your pictures reveal now.  Thats the first time I saw you and while your words are older your face belies them in time.  I truly think that perceptions based upon the text expressions rarely are reflective of actuality....
  • MsImmortality said on Feb 14, 2008....
    Hello :)  I haven't been here long enough to know you, so, I'd tend to agree with the compliments ;)
  • SikariChepiNashota said on Feb 19, 2008....
    polar...i think you're warm and rooted.....and i like that...=) thanks for having me here..=)

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