• destinydiva said on Feb 11, 2008....

  aww I am sorry things are shitty right now....  maybe you could try doing something to spice things up??  go out for a meal together? or do something crazy like go skinny dipping together!! :-) (((((((((hugs)))))) xx

• Jenna said on Feb 11, 2008....

   

  You are me......about ten years ago......as Destiny advises.....is there any hope in reviving what once was? 

• MissMimi said on Feb 11, 2008....

  onemind, I'm sorry you're so conflicted.  I understand 110% about a marriage that is no longer intimate, and no longer provides the emotional and sexual fulfillment that you crave.  I'm the last person who should be givng marital advice, but I just want you to know that you're sharing this boat with many others.
   
  Do you still have passionate love for your husband?  If you do, then maybe a very frank discussion might help.  If you no longer love your husband in the same way, well then, you have some decisions to make.  Just please be careful.  You deserve more than a quick ---- in the backseat of a car. 

• onemind46 said on Feb 11, 2008....

  i think that there could be hope in some ways but in other ways somethings cannot be undone. 
  
  things cannot be taken back and time cannot be turned back. 
  
  about as crazy as it might get around here would be going out to dinner.  Not that crazy (but that is just me).  we've had lots of frank discussions but i do not believe that he realizes just where we are right now as a couple.  or where i feel we are.
  
  oh come on mimi....can't i have a quick ----in the backseat....oh never mind...just kidding...hehe
  

• hottips4u said on Feb 12, 2008....

  Whoaaa....I've heard the flu was bad and wide spread this year, but whatever your experiencing I can definitely do without ! I am no expert on marriage...hehe by far.  But I do know something about couples, irregardless the number making up that couple...each have an important part to play whether the other(s) want to assist or not.
  
  If I want something to happen, the odds are the others won't even suspect I am moving around in their lives in a fashion that brings life and excitement simply bursting forth.  That is my responsibility, not theirs... theirs is but to be an audience to my attempts to help live better for each of us. I have found that smiles are only magical when not precast or expected, but created a purpose.  ; )
  
  Jessi.

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