• crybabylu said on Feb 10, 2008....

  I can't believe this...now, I am crying......those darn hard chest thumping sobs, and tears are flowing like a river, blinding my eyes...Lord, I didn't want to cry...

• brit said on Feb 10, 2008....

  (reaching out and hugging you!)
  
  it'll be okay hun....everything will be ok after a good cry i think
  

• MissMimi said on Feb 11, 2008....

  I'm so sorry for your loss.  Hugs.

• pickersplock said on Feb 11, 2008....

    He sounds like a really great man.
   
  You must really miss him.
  I'm so sorry.

• klausi123 said on Feb 11, 2008....

  Please let it out. It's ok to cry.  It's very hard to loose a loved one. I lost my only brother at 41 years old on August 31,2007. He was diabetic. He checked into the hospital for hernia surgery. Everything was fine first. After three days he developed sepsis, underwent three more surgeries while in intensive care and an induced coma.
  When I got the call about his death, I broke out in tears and some deep, desperate sounds escaped my throat  that seemed to come from the bottom of my soul.
  Over the next months I had no control over my tears. When walking the dogs, I started to cry on the streets. First I was embarrased. But a good friend of mine who is a hospital chaplain ask me to NEVER hold back tears. 
  I buried myself in work creating my very first website. It helped. But whenever I felt tears, I did not keep them back. They are still coming today with periods of sadness that's hard to explain.
  Everybody has his/her way of griefing. But if you feel like crying, please don't hold back your tears.
  It's said that time heals all wounds. I would say that the scars remain forever.
   
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• crybabylu said on Feb 11, 2008....

  http://www.soulcast.com/post/show/112423/My-Brother%2C...I-Still-Miss-Him%21

• crybabylu said on Feb 11, 2008....

  brit....Thank you for being so prompt to answer my post last night, it really helped.

  MissMimi....What a dear you are, Thank you.

  pickers....He was just an ordinary guy, like anyone's brother, but he wasn't just ordinary to me....Thank you for your kind words....

   

  dee

• crybabylu said on Feb 11, 2008....

  Question:  Now that the tears are flowing......How do I shut them off?

• crybabylu said on Feb 11, 2008....

  My special thanks to Lucy and Grace for getting me to the point, where the healing process could begin.... Lucy for her blog post --Opened The Door

  and Grace for back and for pm for over and hour about my health, and for allowing me to talk about past related matters..Thank you , dear sweet, lady.

• Carefully said on Feb 11, 2008....

  Our minds are complex at times.

• carolinagal said on Feb 11, 2008....

  I don't know what I would do if I lost my brother, he is my confidant.

• dancingdiva said on Feb 11, 2008....

  The part about your mom having alzheimers made me cry. It is hard to know what they know and don't know.

• papajack said on Feb 11, 2008....

  I am glad you were able to do this. Sometimes it is a matter of timing. It was time.

• runningbear said on Feb 11, 2008....

  Just like I miss my sister, sorry for your loss.

• truthsayer said on Feb 11, 2008....

  Hearts are complicated.  They way we hurt, the pain we hold on to.  It is all important to let it out and let Jesus heal it.  We know who it is that binds up our wounds. 
   
  Your friend,
   
  Truthsayer

• destinydiva said on Feb 11, 2008....

  aaaww dee (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))  its good to cry, dont try and stop the tears once they flow....  your brother sounds like a nice man...wow 10 kids!!!  I thought my grandma was pretty unique with 12!! :-) you have a wonderful family dee, hope your feeling cheerier since you posted this xxxxx

• brit said on Feb 11, 2008....

  oh good dee, i'm so glad i caught your post so soon after you posted it =) how are ya holding up now hun??

• Lucytorial said on Feb 11, 2008....

  going back to the main post honey!

• rubymae said on Feb 11, 2008....

  I hope you take comfort in knowing, he is in a better place.

• rupert7 said on Feb 11, 2008....

  I too know the pain of death and I truely feel for you. Crying is OK, in fact it is part of the healing, the mourning process. Its OK...really -  let it out babe (((hug)))

• Sandman said on Feb 11, 2008....

  Crybabylu :::   It's clear that you and i don't share even remotely the
   
  same views on politics but you sure know how to yank the tears from
   
  me .  As i read your post my thoughts turned to the loss of my 2 older
   
  brothers and the tears just washed down my face like a warm waterfall .
   
  The love you felt for your brother comes thru in every word you type .
   
  I can feel the love and pain even over the great distance between us .
   
  We must accept that death is a part of life , even when it makes no sense ,
   
  and always hold them in our hearts and never be ashamed of the
   
  tears of love that are always close to the surface .  I think i will turn the
   
  t/v off and just remember my brothers , their smiles , their laughter , the
   
  tears we shared during sad times , the rough times and the wonderful
   
  moments we all shared .  Lets all remember the loved ones we once
   
  held close and hug those still with us even tighter .    SAND

• crybabylu said on Mar 01, 2008....

  
  
  Here is my brother playing the keyboard, beside him is my mama, and beside her is my aunt....

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