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Hi Guys.  I haven't had any time or inclination to sit down at my computer and actually form thoughts, hence my absense.  Just an update on thangs.  For the first time since July of 2005 I have health insurance.  This is incredibly exciting because I can't afford crap.  So starting on January first I am now reaping the benefits of an HMO.  Fabulous!  Since then I have found a new doctor, gone to one check up during which I was given a new prescription to try to help me sleep.  Sometimes it works.  Not the last two nights.
 
I also had my (supposed to be) yearly woman's exam otherwise known as the appointment from hell.  At that appointment my doctor located lumps in both of my breasts.  So at the ripe old age of 27 I had to go and have a mammogram done.  I really was looking forward to another 13 years free of boobie-squishing.  It was not meant to be.  I don't like having a mammo done.  It is not fun or comfortable.  And to top it off I had to have it done where I work.  Luckily the test was negative but now I have to have ultrasounds just to make sure.  We only have two male ultrasound techs where I work and so I will be definitely going elsewhere for that. 
 
I had three million vials of blood drawn and had I not died from blood loss I would be completely healthy.  At least as far as my blood goes.
 
I've been to the eye doctor because my contacts were irritating my eyes something fierce.  My eyes were swollen and itching and hurt.  Talk about headaches.  So my brand spankin' new eye doc got me in quick.  I ordered glasses and new contacts which will hopefully be coming in next week.  I have a follow up appointment on Feb 2.  Had to pick a doc that's open on Saturday cuz I hate taking off of work.
 
I got my W-2's back and have an appointment with someone to get my taxes done this morning.  Love Saturday appointments, baby.  Which brings me to the exciting part of the last few weeks.  The New Wedding.  If I get a decent amount of money back on my taxes I will feel okay about getting the wedding dress that I want:
 
 
I love this dress because it comes in blue, which is our color, instead of black.  It's gorgeous and I love it.
 
We have begun making the new plans for the wedding.  I found a beautiful bed and breakfast in southern Colorado that had wedding packages.  It's located on the edge of a national forest.  The rooms are amazing.  The wedding package is to die for.  It includes the minister (who is Irish!  I love it!), the ceremony with music or we can bring our own, up to 16 guests, champagne, the photographer, the wedding cake, and my bouquet.  Our new wedding date is June 29, 2008.  We will be getting married at two o'clock in the afternoon surrounded by friends and family.  It will be an outdoor wedding which we both want.  And we are honeymooning there for eight nights.
 
I'm starting to get good at this but it's wearing me out.
 
The only thing left to do is finish saving money, buy the dress, and chose what cake and flower arrangements I want.  Okay.  I think I've already found what I want.  Here are three cakes that I like:
 
 
 
 
and the bouquets I like:
 
My favorite!  Only with blue instead of purple flowers.
 
 
 
So that's been my life for the last two weeks or so.  I'm tired.
 
How are you?


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  • silverwhisper said on Jan 26, 2008....
    hey, notsosingle! good to see you again and i'm glad you're taking care of your health--for as unpleasant as that can be.

    me, i like the second cake best, and i thnk that dress is extraordinary--the train looks fantastic! make sure you pay attention when they tell you about bustling it, though. the train of my wife's dress was complicated to bustle and even though i really was trying to pay attention, well... :>

    me, i've been OK, been working on a database project as a consultant that i need to wrap up for next week. i haven't really been on SC the way i wanna be since early december, though.

    ed
  • botoni said on Jan 26, 2008....
    Sounds like things are getting off to a good start for 2008. The dress is beautiful. Something about that first cake seems to link to the dress. Having the roses done on the cake in the same color as your bouquet would give a nice co-ordinating touch. In any case both the flowers and all the cakes are lovely. The B & B sounds like a great idea to me.
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Jan 26, 2008....
    What a great dress, NSS! :)

    I think the second cake is the most elegant - the smooth simplicity is striking to me. Whatever you choose will be beautiful, and I'm really excited for you! :)

    June 29th, eh? We'll be celebrating our third anniversary that day, and I'll think of you!

    ~Infernal
  • evil_twin said on Jan 26, 2008....
    I definitely like the second cake best too! I'm glad you're having such a good time with the wedding planning :-) I hope your doctors appointments all turn out well though.

    As for how I am? I'm great! We stopped planning our wedding and just eloped instead :-D

    -evil_twin LA
  • rupert7 said on Jan 27, 2008....
    congrats notsosingle! Look,I just love wedding cake! they all look great to me but I think the last one would be my choice  (which it is not of course!)  A lovely dress and beautiful flowers! Have a wonderful,wonderful wedding. Best wishes for your future!
  • queenparanoia said on Jan 27, 2008....
    i'm fine not sosingle!!! ooohhhh i love youre dress!!! and youre right it looks better blue!!! i love the second cake!!! i hope you have a great wedding... =) 
  • NotSoSinglechick25 said on Jan 27, 2008....
    Ed ~ I've been lurking in the shadows and have noticed that you've been gone more than normal.  I hope all is going well with your database project!  Thank you for the tip on the dress - I'd rather it not be too complicated lol.  I agree on the cake, I just love that second one.
     
    Botoni ~ The first cake was my first choice and the more I look at them the more I'm liking the second lol.  I hate decision making!  The same type of flowers in my bouquet will go on the cake, I love that. 
     
    Infernal ~ Thank you!  I love that cake as well!  I remember you telling me that the 29th was your anniversary - Congratulations!  I can't wait lol.
     
    Kyle ~ Thanks - all the doctor's appointments have gone ok I just dont' like going to the doctor.  At all.  lol  Congratulations to both of you!!!!  I'm so excited for you two.  I read your post and it sounded wonderful :)
     
    Rupert ~ It was really hard narrowing the choices down and those are the three that I love best!    Thank you so much!  I think it will turn out beautifully.
     
    Queenie ~ I'm glad you're doing well!  Anything exciting going on right now?  Blue is my favorite color and J's as well.  Five months to go.  Again lol. 
  • rupert7 said on Jan 27, 2008....
    notso! you think it will? tut,tut!  I KNOW it will be perfect,may I kiss the bride?........xx
  • queenparanoia said on Jan 28, 2008....
    nope. ,y life is boring right now... =) i hope you cold post some pics in your wedding!!! =)
  • moyz said on Jan 31, 2008....

    love the dress, the second cake and the second bouquet of flowers...oh my word..i cant wait to see the pics!! hope your rebates go well

     

    ((((hugs and warm wishes))))

  • 007Hardone said on Jul 24, 2008....
    NSSC, Keep up the doc's appts. It's important for YOUR health. As for who sees you in the docs office, remember that on earth there are two kinds, one male and one female, we are all the same it's just we come in different sizes, shapes'n colors. Your health is first and foremost! By the time I've read this, the pics are gone but am sure you did make the right choice. Good luck in your new future,,,

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