• destinydiva said on Jan 22, 2008....

  hiya, 3 kids do take up a lot of your time!! I have 3 kids, 2 of them very close in age (3 and  4)  and I know how easy it is for everything to get on top of you, I'm on my own with the kids so I do most of my cleaning up and stuff at night, otherwise I'd just be at ti all day constantly picking up after them!  It does help if you get them to join in cleaning up with you too, my sons an ace polisher now!! lol he enjoys doing it, and I get to clean up :-)  I have recently made new rules about where they can and cant have food and snacks which has made things a lot easier, and since christmas I have been really strict on the 'put one toy away before you get another out ' rule.  How old are your kids?
  
  with regard to no sex time, Do you have anyone who could mind the kids for you? maybe overnight one weekend and you and hubby could catch up on some 'sex time' then?
  xx
  
  
  

• eves said on Jan 22, 2008....

  HI there are 10,3,2 and my middle child has a  Hearing Problem with make it kind of hard some times. I dont have any one that would watch them over night. If me and the husband can find a someone to watch them for a little while we are taking the middle to the doctors office or hospital for her hearing. Thanks for your help will try to get the kids to do a little around the house. And you must be hard for you on your on.

• destinydiva said on Jan 22, 2008....

  it is sometimes, but my husband never lifted a finger when he was around, so its like having one less to look after now he's gone :-)
  I am lucky that my mum helps me out a lot, wow your kids are same age difference as mine :-)  11, 4 and 3 !!
  sorry about your daughters hering troubles, maybe if you could get someone to watch them for a few hours and go out and have a meal together? ....you could always stop off somewhere on the way home..  ;-) xx
  
  
  
  

• josay1103 said on Jan 25, 2008....

  Hello eve. Oh, I feel sorry for you. It must be very hard for you. I have two kids ages 6 & 5 both going to school already. Me and husband work so we have two helpers looking after each child. I sometimes feel tired from work and complains about it. But after reading your story, I feel sorry for you. Oh, please take some time to breath and relax. Ask or maybe give your hubby a hint you miss having a "good sex" with him.

• eves said on Jan 25, 2008....

  oh thank you all will try do do that

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