• hottips4u said on Jan 19, 2008....

  30 days ?  Most men will have you replaced before your done packing!
  
  lol... I think if I were a man and a woman gave me 30 days, I'd her a new policy reflecting a  NO RETURN POLICY !  With following instructions to proceed directly to the curb.  If your dumb enough to get married, enter such a contract, one of the terms thereof come to mind....
  
  For better or worst.......  :-)   Gotta lov the institution of Marriage...lmao
  
  Jessi.
  

• Gypsyheart said on Jan 19, 2008....

  Hottips4u: If he decides to replace me with in those 30 days, it's his perogative. If he decides that I wasted my chance with him. That's fine. I'd be happy walking away and getting a divorce. But after a 10 year relationship, I feel I owe him the chance to get his shit back together.
   
  All I seemed to get was "for worst", I want the "for better" part.
   

• destinydiva said on Jan 19, 2008....

  are you leaving as a threat for him to get his act together? or really content in leaving and the marriage is over??  just curious...I was in your boat...  cept I gave my husband chance after chance after chance...each time he fooled me in to thinking that this time he would change.... eventually, I decided enough was enough, I took the biggest step I had taken so far and asked him to leave, all his stuff with him and he placed the key in my hand, he said he would prove it this time and I like you gave him 30 days, and he was the best husband you could imagine, but this time round, as he handed me the key, my heart quit...  our marriage ended right then and nothing he could have done or said could have changed my mind.
  
  Good luck with it, I hope this gives him the shake up he needs if thats what you want from this...  but be careful how many chances you give him.. ((((((((hugs)))))))   luv destiny xxxx 
  

• Gypsyheart said on Jan 19, 2008....

  Destiny: This is the last chance. If he doesn't pull his act together it's over. Truthfully I'm not holding my breath. I've given him too many chances already. It would be nice if this gives him the kick he needs, but I'm gonna be happy on my own if he doesn't.

• destinydiva said on Jan 19, 2008....

  glad to hear it gypsyheart :-)
  its a tough ride...but no way near as tough as living in a bad marriage, I really hope everything works out for you :-) xx
  
  

• soleme said on Jan 21, 2008....

  I admire you for leaving!
   
   I'm in a bad marriage myself, therefore I'm not qualified to give advice, but just want you to know, that you should not give him 30 days. You just completed step one, you left, step two, start fresh.
   
  Wishing you the best!

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