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After completing the school for his Medical assistant my husband says he's not going to sit for his boards that he didn't want to and I pushed him into this. That he is now going to take the Post office test. March will make an entire year since he's held a paying job and I'm at wits end. I give up. I'm so tired I can't think straight. WTF is an understatement. He doesn't appreciate my hard work,he sits all day and does just about nothing. He gets the kids up and gets them out the door,he will watch dinner and make sure it doesn't burn after I've come home from a double shift all day and prepare it. Oh and he serves it to the kids.
 
But no cleaning not even the bathroom or the fridge,and if I'm out or home at a time the kids get picked up he expects me to go get them while he sits on his fat ass. Am I missing something? I guess I should be greatful for the little bit that "House dad" does right?


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  • destinydiva said on Jan 17, 2008....
    hmmmm  sounds a little unfair!
    everyone changes their minds and being happy in your career is important, but sounds like maybe he just doesnt want to go back in to work again? he sounds like my best friends husband to be, he keeps training for different stuff then changing his mind as it approaches time to get a job! my friend is in your boat too, he looks after their little boy, but she is out working thru the night to support them both whilst he spends most of his time dossing about.
    I can see why your frustrated (((((((((((((hugs))))))))))
    des xx
  • GracefullyGrowing said on Jan 17, 2008....
    I smell major depression, and as a result, lack of motivation.  I suggest counseling, if he'll go.
     
    ~Grace~
  • queenparanoia said on Jan 17, 2008....
    i agree with gracefully...
  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on Jan 17, 2008....
    Dear HH,

    I am so sorry about this situation.  I could also only agree with GracefullyGrowing.

    I wish you will find both find a way to resolve this dillemma.  I feel for you HH.

    And inspite of everything, you find time for others, such as I.  I thank you so much for being there for me, your presence in my blog warms my heart.  I truly appreciate it.

    Warmest regards,

    paper ~


  • husbandhater said on Jan 17, 2008....
    Thankyou all for commenting and the added support. I was just venting and I don't really want to anymore but the situation has not changed and I am considering drastic measures.
  • PassionTraveler said on Jan 22, 2008....
    I lived with a man for 4 years who basically did nothing. He turned out to be bipolar, with huge insecurities of failure, thus he never kept jobs and eventually gave up trying to even get them. I feel ya. I do. But I agree with everyone else, this won't change without counseling or medication. If he refuses, threaten to leave. think about it, you have proven you don't need him or his income to manage. The least he could do is counseling and to try for work. PT
  • Racerboy said on Jan 22, 2008....
    Men ar pigs! We should all be shot.  We aren't worth the air we breath.  Kick him out!

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