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I've had a really bad week. I've been trying to deal with an issue with my seven year old's father and have been quite upset by it. I haven't been sleeping well and I've been sick to my stomach so I haven't been eating. One of my friends invited me out for drinks to help me relax and get my mind off of this issue for a few hours, and it worked....for a few hours....and then people started telling me all of their problems.
 
I'm not sure what it is about me that makes people feel as if they can talk to me about such serious, personal issues...but they do. It isn't always my friends or family, it is complete strangers as well! It happens at the grocery store, at the post office...it happens every where!
 
It doesn't bother me when people do it, I know they need someone to listen....and I know I have a giant sign on my forehead that says "Tell me your problems!!!!!!!" But it makes me wonder who chooses what is written on that sign on our foreheads... Some people have take advantage of me or walk all over me...or all kinds of other things....who decides what's written there? Do we? 
 
And just out of curiosity....What's written on your forehead?
 


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  • destinydiva said on Jan 06, 2008....

    very interesting post !!  im too tired to think right now though (its 1.30am) but i wanted to bookmark it to make sure i got back here :-) xx
  • gingersoul said on Jan 06, 2008....

    Moms...i am sorry you had such a bad week......evidently your suggestion to Mr Box doesn't apply to yourself...what about a box of twinkies? Would it make you feel better?...lol...

    I believe that people treat us the way we allow them to treat us. Its a kind of subliminal message we send them out...unconscioulsy...and we read the signals other people send out s well.....

    Its a human electric shock.....

    I try to show people how i want to be treated by how i treat them . People comes to me too and talk about their lives....i am a good listener .....at the office this woman told me i am a very strong and almost intimidating woman but another one poured on me personal details of her life like she had known me by ages....i guess it all depends by how i approached them, i think....

    i think its ok...you just have to learn to send subliminal messages for when you dont really want to be bothered.

    Kind like street signs on your forehead that say "Back off. Not in the rigth mood, leave alone. Come back later"......

    Hope you will have a better week...:-)

  • Expendable said on Jan 06, 2008....

    Peppermint helps soothe your stomach. try some mint tea or mint candy. Ginger helps too - so find some gingersnaps.

    Someone told me once that shared pain reduces it, while shared joy increases. I think you need to find a way to get rid of the pain you take from others and do something fun.

  • anonymous said on Jan 06, 2008....

    I believe that people treat us the way we allow them to treat us. Its a kind of subliminal message we send them out...unconscioulsy...and we read the signals other people send out s well.....

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  • Mamie said on Jan 07, 2008....
    how about gullible?:))))
  • Mamie said on Jan 07, 2008....
    interestingly, anon, your site has been suspended...what say you?
  • momsrock said on Jan 07, 2008....
    That's ok Destiny...we know where to find you! lol
     
    GS: lol... well, I did try it...but it just led to popping buttons this time!  I am going to try the "Stay away...I'm an evil bitch!" subliminal message....just for a week or so...until I'm in a better mood!!! If that doesn't work I'm going to put a post it on my forehead...LOL Just for a week or so...:)
  • momsrock said on Jan 07, 2008....
    Mamie: I'm not sure how you got cut off from my last comment..I"m so sorry! I listen to everyone...and you're gullible... we better not go any where together because we'd get ripped off in a heartbeat!!
  • lfbno7 said on Jan 08, 2008....
    The thing is, I have this hangnail that has been really annoying me, and I don't have a nail clipper here, and it is driving me nuts. I have an obscure sense of apprehension. Can you help me out here? There never seems to be enough money. Just the other day, one of my kids said hey, can I have something to eat, and I said like .... you just ate, yesterday, why are you bothering me again? Everyone bothers me. Hey, thanks for listening.

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