Fallyn's tags:
i'm falling into the role of mom that i was never able to be before.
 
single motherhood is SOOOOOOO much easier than doing it with HIM.
 
maybe i would have liked being a mom before if he hadn't been so hindering about it all!
 
i know it's only been a week or so....maybe a little longer.....but.....they're still adjusting....it's been hard for them.
 
and i've handled it all quite well, i must say.
i've surprised myself.
a small part of me was scared to have them back, that i was going to fail so miserably as i have in the past.
 
but it's not the case at all.........i'm so glad to have them back.


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  • wombat said on Jan 06, 2008....
    It's only natural that you have had some anxieties about how things would go, but it looks like you are off to a great start!  All the nail-biting waiting period probably did a number on your nerves and your health--but that is behind you all now.  It's so good to hear that you are all adjusting just fine!  Yea, for the girls side!  I am still very happy about the way things have worked out for you and your precious little ones!
  • crybabylu said on Jan 06, 2008....
    I'm glad to hear it is going well.
  • Sunshine_Mariah said on Jan 06, 2008....
    Congrats Fallyn! You deserve it...as do they. I am very happy to read that things are going well. I knew from the start that they would be back where the belonged, and raised in a loving home by one of the greatest mom's I know. I'm so very happy for you! *hugs*
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 06, 2008....
    Welll I'm happy for you hon, your kids are important in your own healing process so enjoy and revel in every minute difficult or not... I'm just glad you have them back again.
  • pickersplock said on Jan 06, 2008....
    Sounds like you all are having a blast!
    I'm so glad everything worked out!
  • vacantmind said on Jan 06, 2008....
    I am glad that things are going so well. When you have a rough moment just remember to breathe and take some time for yourself. Usually the frustration with being a parent comes from not having time for yourself. So, try to take a few minutes each day just for you. I know that is easier said than done! I hope that things continue to move forward in a positive way for your family.
  • Twylarants said on Jan 06, 2008....
    Good for you Flyn!  Single Momhood can be very hard at times, but you can do it.

  • Battycat said on Jan 06, 2008....
    I'm so pleased for you fallyn :-))
  • gingersoul said on Jan 06, 2008....
    Fallyn........good for you.....one small step at the time....:-)
  • travelr712 said on Jan 07, 2008....
    i think you're doing great fallyn, you're adjusting very quickly! keep up the good work! :-)
  • moyz said on Jan 07, 2008....
    great stuff....((((hugs and warm wishes))))
  • silverwhisper said on Jan 07, 2008....
    you know, i think it says a great deal about your ex that you're having an easier time with the kids by yourself!

    ed
  • queenparanoia said on Jan 08, 2008....
    well i'm glad about this fallyn... =) don't worry. i'm sure you can handle being a single mom... =)
  • Fallyn said on Jan 09, 2008....

    ed....yeah....now i only have three instead of four!.......and i can discipline those three!

     

    thankyou ALL .....*HUGEST HUGS*

    i know i'm not on here much anymore.......life is PACKED full every moment.

  • silverwhisper said on Jan 09, 2008....
    fallyn: so long as it's the good kind of busy, take as long as you want! :>

    ed
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Jan 10, 2008....
    I don't know how I missed this, but I'm glad things are going well parenting-wise! :)

    ~Infernal

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