• nursecutie said on Jan 06, 2008....

  Aww....this is a confusing time for you isn't it? I soooo believe that people fall in love with someone's soul and not their body. Most of us who are totally heterosexual only are attracted to someone of the opposite sex. So that when we love someone of the same sex, it is only for friendship.

  But if you are attracted to both, then you can fully give your heart to anyone. That is actually a beautiful thing if you think about it that way. Your heart has no limits!

  Society of course makes things more difficult for people like you......but you are not abnormal. You are just you. And there is nothing wrong with the way you are.

  {{{hugs}}}

  xxoo natalie xxoo

• Fully*Alive said on Jan 06, 2008....

  how can i know that what i feel is real or right???
  
  I just don't know what to think about myself...
  
  I wish i only knew
  

• wakingharmony said on Jan 06, 2008....

  Hey hon, To Love is not wrong and you do so with everything you have. Everything will come you wont have all the answers, but Love yourself you are not a selfish person it will all become clearer as you grow I love you And Anyone feel free to comment. don't be afraid because this is my daughter. She knows pretty much how I feel shes asking other opions   I gotta go we are headin home  Later WH
  

• lfbno7 said on Jan 06, 2008....

  There are so many things wrong with society's opinions and values. One of the things that our society has completely wrong is that it is abnormal to be bisexual. They get an X on their paper. It is perfectly normal for people to be bisexual. You're not abnormal. You're perfect, just the way God made you.
  
  Many more people would be actively bisexual if they weren't cowards. It is natural to be bisexual. There's no need to question it. Your only problem is that you aren't a coward, you aren't a hypnotized sheep.

• inspiration2jms said on Jan 06, 2008....

  I agree with everyone here in that it is never wrong to love.  I have a wonderful friend that led a life of misery because she denied her feelings for another woman.  Her husband died after a long illness and she reunited with that woman three years later.  She had one good year before cancer took her.  She told me that her last year made everything worth it but how she wished she had simply followed her heart in the beginning.
  
  Most of us are not as lucky as my friend was.  Follow your heart dear!
  

• Expendable said on Jan 06, 2008....

  Sometimes I think normal people are the most screwed up people around. We all want to fit in, we all want to be ourselves. We all doubt ourselves.
   
  Be yourself.
   
  There will be pain. You will get hurt. Others will get hurt. It's life.

• hinana said on Jan 06, 2008....

  I think that you decide for yourself what you think is right and wrong, and what makes you happy. It doesnt matter if other people think that what makes you happy is unacceptable or wrong, its that you believe its right and are happy. there are always gonna be people that dont liek somethign about you, so focus on being happy with who you are, and not trying to be 'normal' as for the friend you love, what exactly did that person tell you you would do to break her heart. if your friend loves you back then how is being with her goign to break her heart? good luck with figuring things out =) - hina

• anonymous said on Jan 06, 2008....

  But if you are attracted to both, then you can fully give your heart to anyone. That is actually a beautiful thing if you think about it that way. Your heart has no limits!

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• crybabylu said on Jan 07, 2008....

  I agree with Natalie......{{{hugs}}}

   

  dee

   

  P.S.    You are young, you will discover who you are.

• silverwhisper said on Jan 07, 2008....

  you know, fully alive, my wife is also bi. that you have a friend who would reject you for that says nothing about you, and everything about that "friend".
  
  in the words of a site i frequent, "normal" is just a setting on a dishwasher. :>
  
  if you and your friend feel that way about one another, then i don't see any reason you shouldn't pursue it. how else are you ever going to know if you don't try?
  
  ed

• Fully*Alive said on Jan 07, 2008....

  thank you all for all your help and what you have all said means a lot to me. You have no idea how much yalls comments can cheer me up :)
  
  I appriciate the support
  

• queenparanoia said on Jan 08, 2008....

  just be you... don't let anybody tell you who you are... believe me you'll end up regretting in the end some day if you stop what you feel inside. so what if youre bi? nothing wrong with that. just be you!!! =)

• madhunter1 said on Jan 09, 2008....

  I had the same problem about ten years ago and when my friend decided that she was ready to marry and have children with a man, our friendship took and hit. Just like it is hard to bring an exlover around your husband or wife. It is hard if that person is your best friend. Find love elsewhere. The pain will go away , you'll have your friendship, and you will be in love with the right woman or man. Always think past today.

• kily2007 said on Jan 13, 2008....

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• lfbno7 said on Jan 13, 2008....

  Interracial hot dating? Yeah I'd be really surprised. I'm 57 years old and have been married for 63 of those years.

• madhunter1 said on Jan 19, 2008....

  Interracial hot dating??? Not, cool, if you so happen to meet someone of a different race, culture , or faith it happens, but seeking someone different because it's a fad or like a game. Or to try something new has caused alot of problems in my culture. People come in try the dark side and ruin lives on their way out. Please fall for who you want, but fall, dont seek for adventure in someones fragile heart.

• inspiration2jms said on Jan 30, 2008....

  lfbno7 said on Jan 13, 2008....

  Interracial hot dating? Yeah I'd be really surprised. I'm 57 years old and have been married for 63 of those years.
  
  
  HAHAHAHA!!  I would be surprised also!  63 years huh?  Well, I am 51 and have been married for about 30 years, but not to just one man.  hehehe
  

• lfbno7 said on Apr 12, 2008....

  Are you still around? It's been a long time. How is mom?

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