hi everybody
happy christmas to u all!!!
yesterday was hubby dear's bday and we went out for a nice dinner with some friends.
the thing is...we have a very scattered group of friends...not common as in everybody does not know everybody else and neither do we all hang out together. but hubby and i hang out separately with all of them. so yesterday we made an attempt to bring every one together and chill out that way too. it was amazingly very easy to gel well for the guys and not so much for the girls in the group.though we all were trying to be comfortable and all. i thot that since i had brought all of them together , the onus was on me to start the conversation bubbles. but very weirdly,i, who is never short of topics, was kind of tongue-tied and wanted to take a back seat,and let things carry on, on its own!!!!
never happened with me before!! the short lapses in between our conversations seemed very awkward to me...maybe only to me. on the whole it was ok..at the end...but i think we shd stick to going out with them as it was, and not mix all the groups.
everybody said they had a great time together!!!
all in all was good money spent!!:)
i had my reservations about how people will react when introduced to new people but i guess everybody sorted it out and it was ok.
does this kind of thing work out? and how do u make a common group of friends?
