• EvilTwin said on Dec 20, 2007....

  None of the above.  [Hugs] Alyss.  Lots and lots of them. 

   I love you.

• Mamie said on Dec 20, 2007....

  I'm with ET on this one, whats up, Lady? Don't be so hard on yourself! Mamie

• EvilTwin said on Dec 20, 2007....

  And no, you do not deserve it.

• GracefullyGrowing said on Dec 20, 2007....

  The view you're seeing is not real.  View yourself with the light on - the light of the eyes of another. . . maybe God, or your children, or your BFF.  
   
  ~Grace~

• the_infernal_optimist said on Dec 20, 2007....

  I'm going to go with ET and say none of the above as well.
  
  ((hugs)) You, like so many other good people, are way too adept at raking yourself across the coals.
  
  ~Infernal
  

• fearing said on Dec 20, 2007....

  Alyss, We haven't had much interaction here but I've not seen a side to you that I could use those words to describe.  Sorry.  I hope whatever the reason for this post, you feel better soon.

• Battycat said on Dec 20, 2007....

  I don't know whats happened, but I'm sure none of your adjectives are true {{{Alyss}}}

• skald said on Dec 20, 2007....

  No I don't think you are any of those things (((((((((Hugs)))))))))

• uniquely-ironic said on Dec 20, 2007....

  okay, you're horribly ...... wonderful.  Damn!  You're an awful ..... good person.  Shoot!  I can't seem to put a bad word down that doesn't end up being good.

  (hint hint)

  Despite any mistakes you make, there is a good person screaming to get out.

• travelr712 said on Dec 20, 2007....

  i've never seen or heard of you doing anything bad alyss, so i can't say any of those things about you. now rupert, on the other hand... :-)
   
  what's up alyss? what's got you so down on yourself? and you know you can't just post something like this and not expect any of us to ask! that's what we're here for!

• Zayda said on Dec 20, 2007....

  I'm sorry, but the Alyss I know is funny, witty, intelligent, goofy, charming, compassionate and a whole slew of wonderful adjectives.

• CreativeWoman said on Dec 20, 2007....

  Alyss,
  You are none of those things. (((((Hugs)))))
  
  CW
  

• hotaka said on Dec 20, 2007....

  I got one:
  Self-depricating
  
  I sure hope I spelled it right. That's the only negative word I could think of for you Alyss. Other than that I have always thought of you as a gem sometimes being dragged through dust and dirt, but a gem none the less.
  
  Or what, did you go drown a kitten recently?
  

• hidufel said on Dec 20, 2007....

  No way will I agree to that! YOu are a good person... no bad adjective here. I firmly believe that.
  
  Hugs. you are a wonderful person, please, don't be so harsh on yourself.
  

• lioneljay said on Dec 20, 2007....

  That's odd, I could swear that I completely missed the warp in the time-space continuum back there, but clearly I went through one and have just met Alyss's inverse creation.

• crybabylu said on Dec 20, 2007....

  Nope, none of those things fit!

• lfbno7 said on Dec 21, 2007....

  Pick a negative adjective .... umm ..... I'll go with doody headed. Now what brought this on anyway? Who did you kill and why? And for that matter, how?

• Alyss said on Dec 21, 2007....

  I suppose I ought to have realised the response I would get to this and I am grateful for your support, nagging and kind words. Being unwell has obviously upset my ability to cope more than I had noticed and I'm afraid I seem to tend to melodrama when overwrought... So I am very sorry for any concern or worry I have caused.
  
  What prompted this downer? Life, circumstance and DH not coping very well with receiving notification of the divorce proceedings and me feeling badly for his hurt.
  
  It probably sounds silly that I am upset by his hurt but I genuinely don't want him to be hurting and hate to be the cause of it. Then again there is no going back from where he and I are now either so I will just have to toughen up and not let it get to me I suppose. < sigh >
  
  
  Oh and I have now blocked anonymous comments as it was becoming annoying.
  

• carmachu said on Dec 21, 2007....

  smart, pretty, wonderful adn caring would be better ones...

   

• rupert7 said on Dec 21, 2007....

  Alyss....I don't know that we have actually spoken have we? If you feel badly for anothers hurt then you can't be all that horrible!
  
  Now that travler712 he is a nasty piece of work if ever there was! He keeps stalking me! He is ghastly and horrid! And whats more he doesn't even know what Beetroot is! AND he insinuated to you that I am a terrible person! I saw that comment ya mongrel!  lol (trav not you alyss!) Would you mind slapping his face for me?...I'd do it  myself but he might hit me back! lol
  

• travelr712 said on Dec 21, 2007....

  alyss, you see, you're such a compassionate person that you hurt when your ex got his divorce papers! most people throw a party! so you're not mean and horrible, you're just doing what needs to be done. you've got some hard times ahead, and i've been through it more than once, and people tell me i'm a good listener, so if you ever need someone to talk to, think of me, ok?
   
  rupert - i'm only nasty to you guy, cause you deserve it so much! :-P (actually, i'm enjoying this friendly sparing we've been doing)

• elaineandcotteralladams said on Dec 21, 2007....

  bad bad bad...

• rupert7 said on Dec 21, 2007....

  trav....me too,I know your an  OK sort of a bloke!

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