• wombat said on Dec 19, 2007....

  1.  They yell and get defensive when you question them about where they have been... but they always have a good answer.
   
  2.  They accuse you of cheating.
   
  3.  They do all the other little things they are supposed to do--to keep up appearances.
   
  Well, this is some of the things my ex did--his defensive mode turned to such anger that I got angry.  Then my anger became a reason for him to want a divorce.  But he didn't leave.  I had to.  And I was so miserable by that time that I just left and gave up everything and didn't even fight him.
   
  Plus, he was a "Mama's boy."  He actually hated women.  He let his mother control him, then he came home and controlled me. (to get back at her, or because he couldn't control her)    Every woman he got with after that, he tried to control. 
   
  I am happily married.  He is divorced again.  And still single.  Looking for that one woman he can control and still fool around on.....
   
  Good luck, dear old ex....

• fearing said on Dec 20, 2007....

  I saw it a couple of weeks ago.  My ex cheated on me and the only one that didn't fit was the yelling part.  He did make me think I was crazy for thinking he was cheating but he didn't yell.  And yes, I knew for a long time.  I just couldn't prove it.  Little things mostly but the main thing was intuition. 
  I wish you well. 
  

• anonymous said on Dec 24, 2007....

   My ex cheated on me and the only one that didn't fit was the yelling part.  He did make me think I was crazy for thinking he was cheating but he didn't yell.  And yes, I knew for a long time

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• fearing said on Dec 24, 2007....

  I must REALLY be important!  This is the 2nd time I have had an echo.  Cool!  Thanks anonymous!
  
  

• lfbno7 said on Jan 08, 2008....

  One way to tell is if you find that your spouse is constantly with somebody else, often talks about that person, and is fucking them.
  
  Another good way to tell is if your spouse calls you on the phone and as soon as you hang up, they start fucking someone else.
  
  Another tipoff is if you get home and want to have sex and your spouse says no, I have just been fucking someone else.

• BigDan7 said on Jan 20, 2009....

  Momsrock thank you for saying you can not guarntee you won't.  I think anyone that says absolutely they won't either lives at home and never goes out or lives in a monostery or nun's home.  First I don't encourage cheating it can be a very bad scene if you are caught and it will end what you have for a relationship for a moment of fun.  I travel a lot in business and I can tell you I have never set out to cheat and did my best not to do it but on one or two ocasions I got caught up in the moment and did.  Cheating does not have to be the end of a relationship but an ongoing cheating over a length of time usually does.  I guess I can say I was not caught and if I did it again I would make sure I did not get caught.  There are times in a marrage you are tempted beyound your ability to resist.  This happens most often when one or the other (wives cheat almost as often as men) begins to thing the other partner does not understand or any of a million reasons that the trust is broken in the moment.  This opens the door for it to happen.  Again I am not advising any form of cheating but it can happen.  It often happens with women that have service people in to do repairs also women who work become too much of a work spouse an it just happens.

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