One thing that I can't seem to get a grasp on is when a woman is flirting with me. When she's showing interest. Unless it's obvious, like she says 'hey, wanna get it on' and starts shedding clothing (not that it happens, mind you), i just don't seem to be able to 'tune in'. I can't seem to be able to discern between when a woman is just being friendly, or wanting to take it to the next level.
Let me give you an example. A couple days ago, the woman in my office that i mentioned in another post, had come to work with a belt around her waste, that kept riding up to rest under her 'hoo hoo's'. (no, i'm not afraid to say the word boobs, it's just that hoo hoo's sounds funnier)
she was standing in the aisleway with several other people around, including me, when her friend, also a woman, mentioned that her belt was riding up and accentuating her assets. She responded with a 'that's what it's supposed to do', and then, looking right at me, grasped said hoo hoo's and proceeded to adjust them.
Was I being flirted with? I didn't know how to respond. I didn't look away. In fact, what I was thinking was how bold it was of her to do that in front of everyone, which i thought was really cool, and how much I would have liked to have been the one adjusting them for her. But still, I said nothing.
So, was I being flirted with? How can I tell? What is the defining line between flirtation and just being funny? How exactly is it that women flirt, anyway? Help me please, I think maybe I've been missing out on opportunities because I'm so obtuse on this matter.
