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Do you remember these things from your childhood?
 
I was just sitting here watching my candle burn, listening to the radio, staring at the screen and thinking--why don't I write a post?
 
Well, of course, I have nothing to say with any substance as usual, but it felt good for a moment to think that I might....
 
I decided to let my my mind flash to whatever--and the first thing I saw in my mind was a picture of myself as a child blowing on a dandelion stem.  It was as clear as if I had just done it--so I guess I was getting one of my wishes....I thought of another post about pretty much nothing.
 
But one thing I recall about blowing on those dandelion stems was that my sister told me that if you blew on it, that the number of "flowers" left on it was how many children you would have.
 
I guess I must have blown pretty hard on that dandelion, because I only had one child--and it was just fine that I only had one.  I wished for a child at the time---and I got a most wonderful one.
 
I also remember eating roses at my aunt and uncle's house.  Don't ask me why I was eating them---peer pressure, I think.  But there is a wild story that followed.  There were some cousins that I was with at the time, that I lost track of as years went by.
 
But then one day I was sitting with a co-worker and out of boredom, I picked up a newspaper.  There was a name involved with an ad to sell horses, and the name was familiar.  I mentioned it as it was my uncles' name.   She looked at me funny, and said, "That is my uncle's name."
 
After a bit of discussion, we found out that we were cousins, and that she was the one who had made me eat the rose!
 
All that aside... I used to eat clover. 
 
(mares eat oats, and does eat oats, and little lambs eat ivy.....)


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  • Fallyn said on Dec 05, 2007....
    i miss my cousins so much. that's what this post reminded me of.
    i miss them....i have 14  1st cousins on my dad's side...we're all around the same age....within 5 to 7 years. ........and we were all really close.

  • quietone said on Dec 05, 2007....
    LOL wombat, you never cease to amaze me !!  I remember eating clover, but not a rose!! That was pretty cool the way you found your cousin.  I musta blown those dandilions really hard too....but then I already know I am full of hot air!  ha
  • silverwhisper said on Dec 05, 2007....
    OK, i've never eaten roses, or clover. or ivy, come to think of it, but i definitely remember blowing on dandelions. i remember when i found out that dandelions are bad for lawns and that by blowing on 'em, i was sending more dandelions out into the world. i remember feeling really guilty about that for a while.

    what a way to find your cousin--how weird!

    ed
  • crybabylu said on Dec 05, 2007....
    I remember everything you mentioned.  Totally interesting way to meet your cousin.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Dec 05, 2007....
    I did the dandelion thing too.  That's too cool about re-finding your cousin.  Cousins are cool since you didn't live in the same house growing up, but you're still connected by family blood.
  • beyondtheveil said on Dec 05, 2007....
    wombat- I remember trying natures plant cuisine in the wild, but the only thing I chewed on that tasted reasonably well to me was those thick grass stems. I never tried a flower though, don't know why. Some small branches were pretty tasty. 
  • wombat said on Dec 05, 2007....
    Fallyn:  Yes, I remember tons of cousins around to play with--back when people still came to visit and stayed two weeks from all over the place.
     
    quietone:  I amaze myself sometimes...ha.  That was probably the only rose I tried--it was a red one, and I was wondering if she was nuts or just pulling my leg.  I think the "clover" I remember was clumps of what we called "sour grass."  "How I met my cousin" was one of those coincidences.  I had picked up that paper off the concrete floor outside as it blew by in the wind--just for something to look at while on break!
     
    silverwhisper:  I had forgotten that about dandelions!  I guess we kids spread quite a few in our yard!
     
    crybabylu:  And what was most weird was that the man's name selling the horses---he had the same odd name as our uncle--but it was not our uncle.  This man lived across the state!
     
    U-I:  I wish I still had cousins around that were close to me.  I could use the company!  But families scatter--mine certainly did.  Now it is, "Do you remember so-in-so?"
     
    beyondtheveil:  Never chewed on bark--well, maybe that's a lie.  We pretended to smoke with some kind of sticks but I can't remember what they were.  And I remember making bracelets with clover and using blades of grass to put between my thumbs and making whistling noises!   And I might have tasted the gum (sap) on a few trees.  It sounds familiar and the taste rings a bell!
     
     
    Thanks!
  • Twylarants said on Dec 05, 2007....
    I've had rose hip tea but haven't eaten roses.  We used to catch the twirly things that dropped from maple trees and stick them on our noses.  And we'd pick the weeds with a head on them (don't know what they're called ), wrap the stem around the head and shoot them at each other.  There was a little ditty we sang when we did it,
    "Mama had a baby and it's head popped off,,,"
    We were twisted little kids, weren't we?
    Oh God, I remembered something else just now!  When a thermometer broke my mother would let us play with the mercury ball.
    Well, that explains a lot!
  • RollingC said on Dec 05, 2007....
    That's a funny way to have a family reunion...but it's good to know where your relatives are....specially if you're working with one. (LOL)
    Good for you that you two met up again...it was meant to be.
    Rc
  • wakingharmony said on Dec 05, 2007....
    Oh what wondrful memories wombat!! we had so many dandelions to blow and just as many cousins there were8 of us "double cousins" & 28 other 1st cousins Big family get togethers summer was so much fun we usually all went camping (before they used to charge you) in tents...roasting marshmellows on stick and stepping on hot ones that fell off ouch lol.....smell of coffee on a campfire and bacon eggs yum nothing smells better at 5 in the morning when dad would try to get out before the fish started bitin` Thanks wombat
  • CreativeWoman said on Dec 05, 2007....
    I blew on the dandelions.  I also used to tie them together when they were still in the yellow flower stage to make crowns, necklaces and bracelets.  I was creative even back then.  :-)

    CW
  • destinydiva said on Dec 05, 2007....
    doo de doo doo thats pretty weird that you were with your cousin and didnt realize! do you stay in touch now?  my dad is one of 12 (yes 12!!  lol) and the 12 all have like 5 and 6 kids....  which means I have an awful lot of cousins!!  they are all of similar age too...(well 18-35 ish) I am nearly 30.....   and the sad part is that we only see each other at weddings christenings and funerals!!  and each time we se each other at such events, we say aww we must get together more often and without cause....   but never do.
    but!!!  I recently started hanging out on facebook, and many of my cousins are on there, it has been so great to form friendships with them and stay in touch with them on an almost daily basis, there is one cousin in particular, who I was really close with as a child, then over the years never saw...  and now we are chatting every day, our lives are so similar!   :-)

    blowing dandelions....  wow, dandelions are yellow arnt they? I remember being told not to touch dandelions  cus they make you wee the bed!!  :-)

    there is another type of flower...or weed??  that you blow and its spose to tell the time...   my kids still do that now, and it really works!!  :-)

    hmm as for eating plants! lol  I possibly did but dont remember.... I did make perfume with roses! and I do smoke the occassional plant every now and then :-) xx

    aww as you can tell from my huge essay I have wrote here...  your post brought me lots of memories, thank you :-) xx


  • skald said on Dec 05, 2007....
    Oh that is sweet so you met your cousin again not knowing at first that it was she. And then having one child is good. You are rich with one child. Love ♥♥♥
  • liveinthemoment said on Dec 05, 2007....
    Thanks for the memories!
    I remember taking just the dandelion stems, looping each to insert the small end of each stem into the larger end, and then making long chains of these loops intertwined as necklaces.....
    ....When I want a quiet place to go, I can still feel the sun, see the scene from the hill where I sat (a sea of yellow dandelions over the field), and the smell of the weeds & wind....alone,....intensely engaged with nature....at peace. Oh to be 7 again!
  • travelr712 said on Dec 05, 2007....
    womby - that was really cool that you had been working with your cousin all that time and didn't even know it until you saw a picture in a newspaper! and don't worry about the fact that your posts aren't all intellectual or anything, they're poignient and fun and relaxing, and we all need that too.
  • wombat said on Dec 05, 2007....

    twylarants:  I've never heard of the sticking the twirly things from maple trees on your nose.  (at first I thought it said, "in" your nose, ha...)  I've never heard of the weed you could wrap and shoot, either, but it sounds cool!  And that was crazy that you played with a themometer mercury ball!

    RollingC:  Yes, that was strange that we "met" that way.  We were friends who sat together on breaks for weeks before that happened.!

     

    wakingharmony:  Those camping trips sound wonderful.  Glad I brought you good memories.

    CreativeWoman:  I used to make the bracelets, too, but I don't think I was creative enough to think of making a crown!

     

    destinydiva:  No, we don't stay in touch.  She is back home in my home town, and last I heard she was a police dispatcher.  Hope she is doing well.  I know about families not getting together even though they mean to.  Ours is much like yours.  I have never heard the one about touching dandelions making you "wee the bed."  Explains alot, tee-hee...

    skald:  Yes, I feel rich with my one wonderful child.  No complaints there.....

    liveinthemoment:  You are welcome.  Those were simpler times, weren't they?  I remember the smells of my untamed youth, also.

    travelr712:  Yes, that was definitly a "wow" moment fo us both when we realized we were related after being friends.  Thank you for saying that about my posts.  I usually wake up the next day and feel silly.  Sometimes I don't remember comments I made.  I read them with as much blind curiosity as others!  Ha.....

    Thanks all!  From "Fallyn" to" travelr712!"

    wombat

     

  • Fallyn said on Dec 05, 2007....
    wombat EXACTLY! maybe i'll have to write a post about our family reunions.....i just wish we could have another one.
  • wombat said on Dec 05, 2007....
    Fallyn:  Man, you are fast!  I have been struggling with the responses, and had just clicked off the post--and there you were!  How do you people do that?  We had a family reunion last year, but I didn't get to go.  I would have liked to--it was up in the hills of Eastern KY at some "well-to-do" relatives home. Would like to read about your family reunion.
  • travelr712 said on Dec 05, 2007....
    it's easy to do that womby, we've got your place web cammed! :-P big brother trav is watching you!!!!!!!!!!!
  • wombat said on Dec 05, 2007....
    travelr712:  I have been afraid of something like that..... ( I just buttoned up my top and fixed my hair......)
  • queenparanoia said on Dec 06, 2007....
    did you wash eat before eating it wombie? LOL... when i was young me and cousins pretend that papaya leaves were cigars.... we roll them and smoke em... alhough we don't swallow the smoke... no wonder i smoke today... =)
  • wombat said on Dec 07, 2007....
    Queen:  No, I don't think we washed anything we scrounged from outdoors before eating it...ha.   You did make me remember how we could have survived for weeks alone outside, though.   We ate berries, nuts, apples, peaches, pears...but I knew not to eat crabapples, and I didn't like persimmons.   Ha...I can just see you puffing away on a big old rolled smoke....of papaya leaves! 
  • queenparanoia said on Dec 07, 2007....
    hahahaha yeah it was really funny... ;)
  • callingyou said on Dec 12, 2007....
    I was a clover eater too..haha
    that's crazy...it's a small world.. i can't stand when people say that, but it's so true.
  • wombat said on Dec 13, 2007....
    Just saw this, but thank you for responding!
     
    So, you remember those days, too, huh?
     
    And yes, it can be a small world--when things work the way they are supposed to.....
  • callingyou said on Dec 14, 2007....
    haha it wasn't that long ago for me, but i wish it was still that easy :]

    it is.  I just found out that my ap history teacher was a very good friend of my uncle when they were in high school.  And since my uncle died when I was only two, seeing a picture of he and my history teacher at prom was pretty cool.  I also found out that my history teacher knows my mom, aunt, and other uncle...pretty cool
  • wombat said on Dec 14, 2007....
    callingyou:  That was odd!  Makes you wonder how many people you run across without finding out all the connections.  You made me think that I would like to have copies of all my year books from grade one on up so I could look at them again.  I only have my senior one and a college one--where I only went for one year.  But I would like to see the really old ones again.
  • callingyou said on Dec 14, 2007....
    wombat:  I know!  And today one of my friends came up to me and said that our little siblings are friends.  You should find them though, it's always amusing to look through old yearbooks
  • wombat said on Dec 14, 2007....
    callingyou:  Another connection there... and yes, that would be nice to find all the old year books, but I wouldn't know how to begin.  I bet someone somewhere has faithfully collected them all--but I wouldn't know.  I'd like to see all my funny school photos in a row, though--and those of others that I can see in my mind.
  • callingyou said on Dec 14, 2007....
    wombat:  I love it.  Because, when you look at your kindergarten pictures, or at least when I do, I thought about how easy things were and how good life was. haha, plus it's funny to see all of the style/hair/clothes changes
  • wombat said on Dec 14, 2007....
    callingyou:  My mom used to pull our hair forward from our crown and then whack it off in a straight line--I had the same hair-do until I was 10........but I am fond of my "go-go boots," a certain leather jumper, and a pair of green plaid tight-legged pants.... (not all at the same time...ha...)
  • callingyou said on Dec 16, 2007....
    wombat: haha.  green plaid tight-legged pants :]  that puts a funny image in my head.  The only real fashion statements I've made was when I was from the ages 3-5 and I didn't let my mom pick out my outfits...and that was bad because during that age, you have pants that only match a shirt and vice versa...so I would look pretty funny.
  • wombat said on Dec 16, 2007....
    callingyou:  Keep in mind that those pants were from the 60's!  In fact, I was wearing them when I got my first kiss from a boy.  It was on a hayride, and we were at the campfire sitting on a log.  He had a big nose and big lips, but we put them to good use!  The lips, I mean...ha...  btw, I still need help dressing to match...!
  • callingyou said on Dec 16, 2007....
    wombat: haha, that's great :] aww, well they were good luck! me too!

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