To live in the hearts of those whom you leave behind is not to die.
I remember when you had Lilja's photo up before and took it down Skald. That this has all been very painful for you is not hard to see or to understand.
Lilja was so pretty Skald, I hope this becomes less painful as the years pass. Things like this never go away, they do become easier to bare as time heals the wounds and scars. God Bless you and yours Skald