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The laundryroom to my building is one floor down. The key to my door also opens that door.
 
When B. and the little guy moved in, it was a 'great adventure' to him to help me take the laundry downstairs. I decided to give him a little responsibility, so I let him carry the key and unlock the door. I had taken it off my key ring because I only had one, and B. needed a key to lock up during the day when I was at work.
 
The second weekend that we did laundry, I apparantly didn't keep a close enough eye on his handling of our key, because when we looked for it a couple nights later to go to the store, it was missing. No one knew what happened to it. I could have sworn that the little guy put it back in it's spot, but when we looked, it just wasn't there! For weeks, I've had to leave my apartment unlocked, because I just didn't have the money to pay the apartment complex to have the lock replaced so I could have a new key. And don't think that I wasn't worried when we drove to Michigan for thanksgiving with an unlocked door. Everything I own is in this apartment, including my one and only computer! Fortuantely, everything was still here when we got back.
 
So, for two weeks, we've been spending outragous money and time to take all our clothes to a laundromat to have them done, which was especially grating on me, knowing the convenience of washers and driers were right below my apartment!
 
Last week, I had some business in the complex office, and a little extra cash, so I decided to bite the bullet and tell them I had lost the key. I almost fell over myself when the woman said 'well, I've only got one more, so take care of it', and just handed it to me! For two weeks I'd been going through all that, and another key was just sitting there in the office for the asking! Boy, didn't I feel like an ass!
 
So that brings us up to today. The glorious laundry day when I can just carry them down, put them in, spend half the amount, and come back up to the comfort of my couch and my computer. I was so proud! And i kept full control of the key, by the way :-)
 
Things went along swimmingly. Loads in the washer, loads in the dryer. Let the little guy put in the soap and push the buttons, and he was happy. Everything was laundry bliss!
 
UNTIL
 
I went down to get the last load out of the dryer. The little guy and I merrily skipped down the stairs in anticipation of complete laundry success, until I opened the door, and THERE IT WAS! My pile of laundry, sitting on the folding table! Someone had gone into the dryer and pawed through my things like they had some kinda right to my life or something, and just calously dumped them on the folding table! And it wasn't like they needed that dryer either! there were three empty ones sitting right beside mine!
 
HOW RUDE!!!!!!!
 
Now, I know I've embelished this story quite a bit for entertainment purposes. But let me ask you, is that an acceptable form of good apartment neighborly conduct, or is it crossing the laundry boundry? Should it be ok for someone else to be handling my clothes when there are perfectly good open machines right beside mine, or should the rule be 'hands off'?


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  • Fallyn said on Dec 02, 2007....
    ONLY if there are no other dryers available is that ever acceptable.

    when i was in apartment living.....we had neighbors that would leave their laundry in the dryer for 24 hours or more after it was dry.....you never knew when they were coming back.
    just so long as it isn't on the floor or anything......
    in fact i'd leave my basket there on top of, or in front of the dryer i was using so if it got done and someone needed that dryer they could just dump it in the basket.

    i think though that since there were empty dryers that that was very rude behaviour and makes no sense.

  • travelr712 said on Dec 02, 2007....
    well, yeah, that's what i thought! i wasn't able to leave the basket on top as usual because i had brought the other loads up, and i always check to see if there are any open ones before i even begin to think about touching someone elses clothes.
  • Fallyn said on Dec 02, 2007....
    well of course you do...cause you aren't RUDE. :P
  • travelr712 said on Dec 02, 2007....

    LOL

    well, i think now that it might have been the cute blond woman that lives in the next apartment. i just saw her go by with her laundry basket. so maybe it wasn't so bad after all? ;-) should i go up to her and say 'heya, you can paw my things anytime...' :-)

  • evil_twin said on Dec 02, 2007....
    I remember using the laundry facility at my first apartment complex. I learned that it really wasn't wise to leave your clothes there unattended. I did that once and someone stole all my jeans and the two nice button up shirts that I owned at the time. And they weren't even in the dryer yet! They snatched the wet clothes out of the washer and took off with them.

    It's not as if they were designer threads either. They were just jeans and some shirts I got at Target. But I guess someone must have needed clothes real bad. Or just felt like being an asshole. Who knows? So be lucky that your stuff was still there!

    But yes, it's incredibly rude to remove your stuff when there are other machines available. Some people suck!

    -evil_twin LA
  • travelr712 said on Dec 02, 2007....
    so that's what happened to my other sock!
     
    wow, i can't believe someone actually stole your wet clothes! hmm, makes me wonder if someone lost theirs in a drunken binge and just took advantage of an opportunity?
     
    but maybe not. like you said, some people suck!
  • nursecutie said on Dec 02, 2007....

    Oh I never liked to leave my laundry in the room b/c I didn't trust anyone! Nothing ever happened to me b/c I didn't leave it there. But I know of some people who had stuff stolen. And perverts like to steal womens panties too......LOL! It happened to my friend!

    In a normal world, no one would touch your stuff unless they really needed the dryer. But there is no such thing as a normal world! I would have been mad too.

    xxoo natalie xxoo

  • travelr712 said on Dec 02, 2007....
    wow, stole her panties! is there a market for that? did they turn up on ebay? but i agree with you. the idea of 'normal' has been shattered by the internet. the curtain has been drawn, and the wizard revealed, and there no longer is such a thing as 'normal'.
     
    and just to say it, i wasn't mad. i embellished the story for artistic purposes.
  • Fallyn said on Dec 02, 2007....
    normal.....hah. :P
  • Zayda said on Dec 03, 2007....
    All I can say is thank goodness for apartments and rental houses with washer and dryer hook-ups in them! I hated having to use the laundry area in my apartments in college and grad school before I moved into an apartment that had the washer and dryer hook-up in it.


    I had a few items stolen when in college--namely bras and panties. Who would want them except the weirdos?


    I hate it when your clothes get removed from a dryer and the clothes aren't dry. I've seen people open dryers and dump someone else's clothes out before the drying cycle stops just so they can get their clothes in the dryer--use that last bit of the other person's drying cycle and start the dryer over again.

    But yes that was extremely rude of the person who removed your clothes from the dryer especially since there were other dryers available.
  • Fallyn said on Dec 03, 2007....
    i swear i will never live anywhere else that i can't have a washer and dryer in my own place.
  • merlin said on Dec 03, 2007....
    Some people in this world are realy sick, i mean who would want to steal undrwear! I tink normal should be removed from the dictionary ,it doesnt apply in our world anymore
  • travelr712 said on Dec 03, 2007....
    fallyn - i'm with you, normal is overrated! :-)
     
    zayda - you know, the clothes weren't totally dry like they usually are, so i was wondering last night if someone had scammed on my drier time! but then, if it was that cute blond, i don't mind so much :-)
     
    fallyn - well, if i ever find out that you have in the future, i'm calling the drier police immediately for breach of promise! :-)
     
    merlin - i don't think too many men have that problem, but women, that's a different story. and maybe we should leave the word in there for historical reference?
  • Fallyn said on Dec 03, 2007....
    wha???? *laughing*
  • skald said on Dec 03, 2007....
    laundry is often a course of falling out with neighbors and is a very delicate matter. Was the neighbor waiting for the dryer?

    Anyway that was bad about the key but sorted it self out in the end.
  • crybabylu said on Dec 03, 2007....
    How would you know when those other two dryers became empty?  I would never touch another person's laundry for any reason.  I would try to find out who's laundry it was even if I had to go knocking on every door in the place.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Dec 03, 2007....
    If there are no open dryers (or washers) and the stuff has been sitting there awhile I pull it out and stack it in the basket or a counter.  If neither is available I just cuss under my breath and leave it.  I've had people pull my stuff out of the dryer before it was dry and while it irritates me I can't complain if I've left it in there for awhile after the cycle is finished.
     
    I air dry my bras and panties just because of the missing underwear possibilities of apartment complex laundry rooms.  I'm sure it's nothing special, but I don't want strangers going through that stuff.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Dec 03, 2007....
    I've never had clothing stolen, but someone stole my broken down ol' basket recently.  I had to laugh at their desperation.
  • travelr712 said on Dec 03, 2007....
    skald - laundry is indeed a delicate matter :-) and i don't see how the neighbor could have been waiting for the dryer when there were 3 open ones right beside mine.
     
    unique - i hear ya. i try to be considerate and time the loads so that they don't sit there for an extended period of time. i'm often there with 2 minutes left on the timer. i thought that would be considerate enough, but i guess in this case it wasn't. and as to the laundry basket, i guess it's a case of them getting what they deserved? :-)
  • travelr712 said on Dec 03, 2007....
    fallyn - you know, the dryer police. the specific branch of our civil services who watch for people that make commitments to laundry and break them? you don't have that where you live? :-)
  • uniquely-ironic said on Dec 03, 2007....
    wow, you're much better than me about being prompt.  I figure if I'm within 15 minutes of the buzzer that it should be close enough.  I will let someone else's stuff sit for up to 1/2 hour before "helping" them.  The people in your building need to chill.
     
    As for the basket, at least it gave me an excuse to go buy a new one.  I'm often such a cheap skate that I talk myself out of replacing worn items.
     
    "Gee Cinderelli, the mop still has two strings on it.  Why do you need a new one?!"
  • crybabylu said on Dec 03, 2007....

    I air dry my undies anyhow to preserve the elastic.

    I agree with you, whoever removed your laundry was downright rude!

  • travelr712 said on Dec 03, 2007....
    unique - well, i don't like to mess around where laundry is concerned! and it sounds like cinderella's mop is in about the same condition as your underwear!
     
    cry - hmm, sexy undies hanging on the line. is it getting hot in here? :-) (refer to my earlier post about 'how long has it been?')
  • harriedpsychmajor said on Dec 05, 2007....
    When I was in college I lived in a dorm where this was pretty common. Nobody liked it.

    I remember studying down at the laundry room waiting for the dryer to finish. Just as it stopped this girl was waiting for a dryer to open up.  She saw me coming, but she took it upon herself to dump my clothes onto the top of the dryer to make room for her load! I said "that's mine, I'll get it" and she scoffed like I offended her. I would understand if I left my clothes in there for ten or fifteen minutes, but the drum hadn't even stopped spinning before she took my stuff out. THAT is rude.
  • travelr712 said on Dec 05, 2007....
    i would have to agree with you there harried! some people just selfish i guess, no manors!
  • wombat said on Dec 05, 2007....
    I think that doing laundry is such a tedious task, that people who are otherwise polite will do just about anything to get theirs done and over with.  But I agree that this is rude!  I am not assertive enough to take people's clothes out of a machine, though--so I guess that's good.  I just get irritated--and keep an eagle eye out for whatever is open when I have to do laundry in a public laundramat.  I was so happy about one thing when we moved here--we got our washer and dryer out of storage. 
  • Taffy000 said on Dec 09, 2007....
    I grew up babysitting the boys in the next building.  They grow up to age 16 or 17 and I pass one of them walking out of the building where the laundry room is.  I see a smirky smile on their face. I didn't see which boy it was I go to get my clothes and I see that my clothes have been taken out of the dryer & .
  • Taffy000 said on Dec 09, 2007....
    I grew up babysitting the boys in the next building.  They grow up to age 16 or 17 and I pass one of them walking out of the building where the laundry room is.  I see a smirky smile on their face. I didn't see which boy it was I go to get my clothes and I see that my clothes have been taken out of the dryer & .
  • travelr712 said on Dec 09, 2007....
    wombie - it's always better to have a set of your own, i guess :)
     
    taffy - & what?
  • wombat said on Dec 09, 2007....
    travelr712:  You left yourself wide open there for a good come-back, but I will let it ride....  ha.
     
    Yes, now when I do laundry, I open the door to the laundry room, and tell hubby, "Hey, I'm off to the laundromat.....see you in awhile..."  Ha... 
  • elaineandcotteralladams said on Dec 21, 2007....
    There was probably something about you that caught his attention.  Maybe it didn't come out the wrong way.  You are being judgmental.  Turn the other cheek and apologize.  He will be nice to you from then on.  If not, you must have done something else to upset him.  Ask him what it is.  Remember you only attract people you want to attract, including opposites.  It's called the law of attraction.  It's quite possible that in another life you knew him or were attracted to him and it's related to old energy and karma in this life from your past life.  Good luck.

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