Dear you.
I lied, this isn't a love letter at all. We whine and bitch at each other about how hard writing love letters is, as if it's some sort of chore to put feelings into words (and then I spend hours writing appalling poetry, which belie... read entire post
Of course, having used such an evocative title KG will now avoid explaining what the reference actually means. Or I will only go so far as to say that hotel bathtubs are small, and both KG and the Foxy Lady (henceforth to be known as FL) are quite large... read entire post
whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification--... read entire post
kapaṭīghūṅghaṭa
posted on Dec 02, 2009
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Tags: feminism, political
Perhaps there should be some form of cheap armchair psychoanalysis of this whining which I have carefully stolen for myself.... read entire post
In my normal, non-pervert life I am a very, very talkative person. I kidnap conversations. I monologue. I rant and deliver lectures. I can keep going for hours; I even do stand-up comedy...... read entire post
As I currently am. It's been a long time since anyone was on the cards with the potential physical strength to do me the kind of harm I want, or an apparent interest in inflicting it.
As with all internet-first interactions I'm pretty much co... read entire post
In the interim between my last whinging and the current one, I have been experimenting with Collarme.com (short version; all men are total fucking dicks. Long version; all men are total fucking dicks)... read entire post
kapaṭīghūṅghaṭa
posted on Jan 31, 2009
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Tags: personal, disaster
The thing with the guy went so badly that my new year's resolution is "no more sex with people I don't want to sleep with", a factor which has never been a problem in the past but which is becoming increasingly problematic; unwanted attention from the wr... read entire post
kapaṭīghūṅghaṭa
posted on Dec 27, 2008
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Tags: wank-material, pop culture, feminism
Wank material... read entire post
kapaṭīghūṅghaṭa
posted on Dec 19, 2008
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Tags: personal, disaster
There has been A Development.
You see, while I am far from equipped with "kinky male lovers" in the way that every other sex blogger in the blogosphere seems to be, there are one or two single fathers who are commitmentphobic enough and despe... read entire post
kapaṭīghūṅghaṭa
posted on Dec 06, 2008
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Tags: personal, scene, hi
Sex of the vanilla variety is largely meaningless as far as I'm concerned.... read entire post
kapaṭīghūṅghaṭa
posted on Nov 15, 2008
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Tags: wank-material, scene, political, feminism
Looking through my collection of porn and things-which-aren't-porn-but-act-as-porn-to-me does seem to indicate that I have more in common with various femmedomme bloggers - what a ghastly collection of words that is to describe sexually dominant women wh... read entire post
kapaṭīghūṅghaṭa
posted on Oct 11, 2008
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Tags: personal, romance
Fat emotionally retarded wreck with enormous ego and two extant partners seeks someone intelligent, funny, solvent, dominant and into blood to adapt to the needs of someone who is utterly repulsed by sex 50% of the time. Must be capable of reading minds ... read entire post
kapaṭīghūṅghaṭa
posted on Sep 17, 2008
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Tags: list, personal, wank-material
Sometimes I don't want to talk about how fabulous a sex life I would be having were I not a coward, or about how fantastically annoyed I am by the gender dichotomy in submission (alright, Beej may complain that submissive men paint themselves as weak, b... read entire post
kapaṭīghūṅghaṭa
posted on Aug 09, 2008
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Tags: personal, political, unpleasant
There is a difference between calculated and consensual surrendering to sexual violence, and freezing up because you've still never really got the hang of the idea that you're allowed to tell someone you don't want them to touch you like that or indeed... read entire post