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In the interim between my last whinging and the current one, I have been experimenting with Collarme.com (short version; all men are total fucking dicks. Long version; all men are total fucking dicks)...
The thing with the guy went so badly that my new year's resolution is "no more sex with people I don't want to sleep with", a factor which has never been a problem in the past but which is becoming increasingly problematic; unwanted attention from the wr...
There has been A Development.

You see, while I am far from equipped with "kinky male lovers" in the way that every other sex blogger in the blogosphere seems to be, there are one or two single fathers who are commitmentphobic enough and despe...
Sex of the vanilla variety is largely meaningless as far as I'm concerned....
Looking through my collection of porn and things-which-aren't-porn-but-act-as-porn-to-me does seem to indicate that I have more in common with various femmedomme bloggers - what a ghastly collection of words that is to describe sexually dominant women wh...
Fat emotionally retarded wreck with enormous ego and two extant partners seeks someone intelligent, funny, solvent, dominant and into blood to adapt to the needs of someone who is utterly repulsed by sex 50% of the time. Must be capable of reading minds ...
Sometimes I don't want to talk about how fabulous a sex life I would be having were I not a coward, or about how fantastically annoyed I am by the gender dichotomy in submission (alright, Beej may complain that submissive men paint themselves as weak, b...
There is a difference between calculated and consensual surrendering to sexual violence, and freezing up because you've still never really got the hang of the idea that you're allowed to tell someone you don't want them to touch you like that or indeed...
And despite what certain seminal 1960s rock bands would have us believe, even if one tries and tries one does not always get what one needs, either. That's if you can figure out what it is that you need in the first place.

One thing...
According to Anita Philips, anyway. I'm still on this hobbyhorse for one very simple reason: it really fucking annoys me to be spoken for by someone when what they're saying manifestly isn't what I think. The business of contracts seems to be very popular...
Because I am not Real or Scene or motivated/flush/brave enough to get off my arse and go to more fetish clubs, a proportion of the last week or so has been devoted to reading up on my miserable pervert stance to see what other people make of the positio...
"I really don’t like the term piss play. Or anything ‘play’, really. Sometimes the infantilisation of kink makes me feel slightly bilious." - Bitchy Jones.

An area in which I believe I agree, unsurprisingly. I am still very much a n00b (look,...
Introduction; The Abstraction For The Blog.

It's not very coherent....