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"If I could tell the world just one thing it would be that we're all okayAnd not to worry 'cause worry is wasteful and useless in times like these."
9Terrier20
posted on Jun 25, 2009
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Sooo busy. I feel like the wedding is taking over everything. I manage to go to work every day and get a lot done, but there's a natural level of distraction that I hope isn't totally obvious to those around me. On most days I wind up... read entire post
9Terrier20
posted on May 27, 2009
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I consider J and myself lucky in that we're both pretty level-headed and calm in our affairs. We avoid most of the "game-playing" behavior that is tolerated by other couples. (i.e. girl is mad at guy so she gets all pouty but won't tell him... read entire post
9Terrier20
posted on Apr 14, 2009
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Something really really really awesome happened this weekend, involving the sport that I'm in love with and my college alma mater... which to this point I have avoided mentioning by name in order to protect my anonymity and the identities of people I wr... read entire post
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posted on Mar 31, 2009
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if I wasn't so tired. But I'll see what I can come up with.The best way to describe how I feel is... conflicted. I think I'm pretty good at rolling with the punches in my daily life, but I've become overly sensitive to other peo... read entire post
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posted on Jan 22, 2009
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Preface that I'm happily engaged and would never cheat, blah blah blah. But as I may have mentioned before, one's mind can wander at times. The funnier part is that I sometimes develop these crushes on dudes who I literally don't even know... read entire post
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posted on Jan 04, 2009
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Pretty decent relapse yesterday regarding the resolution. I suck.... read entire post
9Terrier20
posted on Jan 02, 2009
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Very satisfying that after memorializing my New Year's resolution on this thing yesterday I put the ideas to use. Went with J to his dad's house and had good interactions with his siblings. R (who's moving back home into the room that he an... read entire post
9Terrier20
posted on Jan 01, 2009
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I don't know if I "believe" in New Year's resolutions in general. But given that all this drama has been occurring the concepts presents an opportunity to reevaluate and assess the way I react to situations. I have always been very sarcastic... read entire post
9Terrier20
posted on Dec 09, 2008
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I should really listen to J and stop reading his sister's away messages. The topic du jour was that she had been "kicked out of the house." Of course my first reaction to this is that usually after arguments with their dad S... read entire post
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posted on Nov 15, 2008
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I knew it would happen eventually. I can't say the thought hadn't crossed my mind, not that I feel that way but that it's an inevitable part of the process.My fiance's mother, who passed away a few months ago, was incredible. Con... read entire post
9Terrier20
posted on Nov 02, 2008
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I wrote in a previous post that from the outside my life must look relatively awesome, but that in reality it's not. But I'm realizing that it's much more complicated than that. On a day-to-day basis my life is pretty straightforward a... read entire post
9Terrier20
posted on Oct 30, 2008
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I consider myself a happy person. I go to sleep every night feeling accomplished and grateful for the opportunities I've been given. I have so many blessings that I really need another hand or two to count them all. And yet... read entire post
9Terrier20
posted on Sep 21, 2008
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From the outside I'm sure my life seems close to perfect. I come from an upper-middle class suburban family, have a good relationship with my parents and a very close bond with my sister. I am a law student engaged to a successful financial... read entire post
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posted on Jun 29, 2008
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I'm sure I'm not the only person who has lost touch with certain friends over the years. One friend in particular went to college about 2.5 hours away and elected to remain there afterward. Whenever we were in our hometown we'd t... read entire post
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posted on Jan 07, 2008
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I don't consider myself a controlling person, but I do have those tendencies. I like to plan, to be prepared, to anticipate what's going to happen next. Still, I've tried hard to accept that things aren't going to go perfectly, and I think I... read entire post